I don't know why but lately I've been feeling the pressure to have a girlfriend. I've never really had one not because I couldn't get one but because I really didn't care. Some girls have told me that I'm about a 7-8 but I'm definitely shy and have trouble breaking the ice or approaching a girl. I don't drink or smoke and don't really go to parties so where else do you ladies hang out. If this matters at all I workout 6 day a week. Any help is appreciated.
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College Chicks Help Me out here
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So whats the question, how to approach a woman, or where to meet one?
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Both I guess. How would you prefer someone approached you?
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It depends on what you're looking for and what kinda girl you're looking for. Most people meet at parties, groups around campus, classes, or just walking around. If you are looking for a relationship, I dont think parties are a good idea. Most of the girls are drunk and/or whores. It is all about the approach. You have to have confidence, like you know and believe in every word you say. If you look good, then half your work is done. Laugh, have fun, joke with her. You want her to want to hang with you again.
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Well the biggest thing NOT to do is use lines or lie. Just be yourself and be honest. How you should approach her depends on how well you know her. If you share a common interest, maybe you can spark a conversation about that. The most important thing is to show genuine interest in getting to know her.
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confidence. that's all you need.
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Classes are a nice place to meet someone. You might have a common interest with some of the girls in your classes and if it's a small enough class then everyone interacts with one another so you can really see their personality.