ok im not sure if my question should go in here but here it goes...im 18 now n i have a gf, and we've been goin through all these "sexual experiences" of course lately. the problem is, usually she loves givin me a blowjob before we have sex, but once i ejaculate, i cant seem to be able to have another perfect erection after that. so i try to finger her, n go down her until i get an erection perfect enough to penetrate her, but that doesnt seem to happen..i can only get a good erection after we've done something else after my first ejaculation like i dunno watchin some tv for a while or just talk...is this normal or am i havin a problem? please help me out, im scared im not bein able to satisfy her that much, but when we do have sex she IS pleased, but that only happens if i didnt have an orgasm before the sex..help me out please!
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BIG problem...
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Hey bud, this sounds normal and does'nt seem to be a problem at all. Erections and sexual things just take some time working out all the kinks and such. Keep experimenting with things, be patient and most of all just enjoy. Don't "over think" things or get to worried about it always being perfect because it isn't...too much pressure can lead to problems when you're trying too hard. Just relax and enjoy!
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You're normal. All guys have a refractory period after ejaculation when it can be difficult to get another erection for awhile. The length of this refractory period varies a lot from guy to guy, ranging from a matter of only seconds, to a full day for some. Its basically a period of time that your body needs to recharge its sexual systems to get ready for the next ejaculation.
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a ok cool then i thought my lil johnny was bein gaddamn lazy...so is there a way to get it back up then? i mean, girls love foreplays, n im the type who blows up in foreplays, so wats the point of foreplays if i cant have sex after since lil johnny decides to take a break??
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Dude, sounds all good. Accept the blow job and be happy.
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You're perfectly normal. Have her stop the blow job before you cum. Go down on her until she's ready for you to penetrate her. Save your orgasm until she's ready and you'll both be happier. Just be sure to wear a condom.
