well, if your parents are loving, they will respect your wishes, but only if your wishes do not conflict with your greater good. your parents here see that you need to be cut in order to enter your manhood. i cannot agree, or dissagree on either opnion. but, if you feel real strongly about this incodent, there is something you can do to stop your parents. this does not classify as child abuse, there are some actions you may take.according to the department of children services, child abuse has 5 main classifications, one of which is emotional abuse. this is a quote from there deffinition of abuse. Emotional abuse - Any attitude or behavior which interferes with a child's mental health or social development. This includes yelling, screaming, name-calling, shaming, negative comparisons to others, telling them they are "bad, no good, worthless" or "a mistake". It also includes the failure to provide the affection and support necessary for the development of a child's emotional, social, physical and intellectual well-being. This includes ignoring, lack of appropriate physical affection (hugs), not saying "I love you", withdrawal of attention, lack of praise, and lack of positive reinforcement. if you feel strongly enough about this situation, give the center a call, and they can help direct you as to whom to talk to, and to what rights you have. 1-800-827-8724