No pop in the shower

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Alright, I'm gonna be vulnerable again and ask a question. For some reason I can't seem to make masturbation happen in the shower. I can get fairly close to orgasm...but nothing happens. I have to really "work at it" to make it happen, and that sort of defeats the purpose. Anyone else experience this? I know it's likely just some sort of mind trick, but I can't figure out where it comes from. I've tried different times of day as well and, unless I'm off the charts horny, it is quite the task. I don't get it...

Yea i know exactly what you're talkin about. I have that same problem. I seem to get out of the mood quickly and lose my erection faster. Plus if i keep the erection it takes alot longer to orgasm than usual and its not even that great. Its almost like the work doesnt match the reward

So what is it about showers? A know a lot of guys who do most of their wanking in the shower. Why can't we? I'm wondering if I masturbated ONLY in the shower if that would change things. Hmmmm....

Happens to me sometimes.Get yourself horny (via porn, or stories, or whatever you "do") then go in the shower and visualize the stuff you just read/watched.Works for me.

• does not recommend taking VCR / DVD / TV into shower... apparently its not good for you :P

or toasters!

Damien hon, if it isn't working in the shower, then why bother????? is it in the ' guys handbook of wonderful orgasms ' Ok, so if you get a bath, is it the same then??? or am i gonna start a whole new thing think about

Oh, don't even get me started about baths!!!!

I've heard about this before from other guys, but I've never had any problem masturbating in the shower. If anything, I cum faster in the shower for some reason. I wonder why there would be any difference? Actually, one of my favorite ways to masturbate is in the shower: with one of those water massaging shower heads pointed at the underside of my dick - ohhhh man that feels good!

well come on then, is it as good in the bath as in the shower???? hug

I rarely do it in the shower, it isn't as good as somewhere else. But I never do it in a bath, it comes out and just floats there, ya gotta watch where you move. It justs starts moving towards you, like its out to get you!!!!

There was a time when I wasn't able to soak in the bathtub without doing it. But the last couple of times I've soaked and tried it, it wasn't working for me. However, the last couple of times I've soaked in the bath were when I wasn't feeling so well, so that may have more to do with it there. I think I'm gonna try to go a week or two without doing it anywhere, then I'll do it in the shower. It should definitely happen then. Then it can hopefully become a morning shower thing and not a before bed thing.

I can't believe I'm talking to you guys about where and when I jack off!

please forgive me if i'm wrong but might it have something to do with the fact that ur stood up in the shower as apposed to laying down. If you have a bath-cum-shower then try turning on the shower and laying down. If you just have a shower cubicle then give a try sitting down!!! As far as a bath goes, I could't imagine jizzing in the water and letting it float around doing good for the whole bath idea, would defo wash my hair b4 hand - lol I like doing it in the shower so it can just slip down the plug hole!!!Goodluck trying to resolve this problemSmiler

In reply to: I can't believe I'm talking to you guys about where and when I jack off! ummm sorta the point of this site lol

"is it in the ' guys handbook of wonderful orgasms" - Angel WitchActually, it is. Page 30, section C, part XI

In reply to: please forgive me if i'm wrong but might it have something to do with the fact that ur stood up in the shower as apposed to laying down. That's a good point...except for the fact that I have no problems when I stand up outside of the shower.

SNK - thanks hon, i knew there was such a book laffin Damien - you know you can tell us anything hon hugsBob - still laughing imagining bob being chased around the bath tub by cum

In reply to:As far as a bath goes, I could't imagine jizzing in the water and letting it float around doing good for the whole bath idea, would defo wash my hair b4 hand - lol Yeah, cumming in the bath water is not a good idea, especially if you're somewhat hairy like me. The few times I've cummed in the bath, the cum stuck to all of my leg, arm, and chest hair, and my pubes, and it was a mess! The stuff gets super-sticky in water, and just clings to your hair and is extremely difficult to wash out! And if you don't get it out, then when you get out of the bath and dry off, later on the blobs of cum will dry on your leg and arm hair, and itch like crazy. Like I said, a real mess. I used to cum in the bath when I was a teen and wasn't so hairy, but now its a no-no. It's too bad, because its kindda fun to see your cum floating in the water, and especially to see it squirt underwater. In reply to:I like doing it in the shower so it can just slip down the plug hole!!! Yeah, its definitely easier. But you gotta watch that too. If you have a drain like mine, where it catches practicaly every pubic hair that falls off in the shower, then the cum will stick to the pubic hair on the drain, leaving obvious evidence for anyone else who happens to see it. Hmmm, pubic hair with cum on it sitting on top of the drain - I wonder what he was doing in that shower?

I have the same problem. It takes me forever to cum if try to jerk off in the shower. I have tried having sex too, but I just can't find myself to get into it. I dunno, I guess it's all psychological? Who knows... I'll just stick to jerking off before or after my shower. Lata, H.