ok im under 18 in high school ive had a bad life growing up with my parents spliting,mom pullin a knife of my dad ect,anyway thier is this one chic her name is sara shes the kind of chic that is a perfection,i've known her for like a couple months now,we hit it off almost instantly,she was everyting i was looking for in a woman,charisma,a perfect smile,awesome personality and shes moral based,one day i was i wrote a poem in my lit class and the teacher told us to put our feelings i did and i didnt want her to think i was wierd or nothing,she took the poem and was goin to read it,i asked her not to but i senced that she was goin to so i hovered right thier and waited to get my paper back but she gave it back about 30min later,she didnt read it i felt so offended by this,she was mad at me for the longest time,then i asked her about it she said that she was mad because i didnt let her read it,i told her i didnt want her to think different aout me but i told her if she wanted to read it then tell me,she never asked,now shes all mad at me ect,because i stick up for her,she hangs out with these stoners and fuckin perverts they make me sick im the only one who doesnt i find myself attracted to her im not sure what to do when they get all perverted on her i step in with out even noticing i do ive almost got into multiple fights just for her sake,she doesnt talk to me much anymore and it honestly makes me sad ive cried over it,how do i know if she likes me or if thier is like a sister brother relationship thier????</font color>
I Need Some Help Or Advice
Why did you feel offended by the fact that she didn't read it, when you'd asked her not to read it. No wonder she was upset - she felt she did the right thing and you got offended by it.
But the fact that she got so upset suggests to me that she does like you, though I can't say for sure. Why don't you ask her? Forget about pretending to be cool and funny and so on, be honest and straightforward.
Yeah, honesty is the best policy. Explain to her what you've just explained to us. Tell her why you feel that way. If it's hard to do it face to face write her a letter or email
I say just go for it, face to face. Thats always the best way to go becuase it means more than an email or letter....in my opinion. But you have to just be honest, cant hold back. I doubt that if she didnt like u she would never talk to u again. Plus look at it this way, its very odd to have a friendship with someone of the opposite sex ive found, somethin always happens between the 2. So chances are she likes u