Need Advise

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Hi I am Bi and i do like girls but find it better with a guy. I have this neighbor who is gay and lost his partner and i don't know how to ask him if he would like to have sex with me?

In reply to:Hi I am BiHi, I'm a guy.Why would a person's gender or sexual orientation change your approach? Why wouldn't you approach him the same way you'd approach a woman?

Maybe its just me, but is there ever a correct way to approach someone to ask them to have sex with you? If he just lost his partner, he might not want to have sex with you anyway.

In reply to: Maybe its just me, but is there ever a correct way to approach someone to ask them to have sex with you? LMAO......yea definetely not beatin around the bush(no pun intended even though there is no bush) this kid is just plowin throught the bush with a truck

no it has just been over a year

Yea im sure alot have people have gone alot longer than that. Its been a while for me since ive even been witha girl period. I'm not walkin around askin my friends(girls) to have sex with me

What!? You just asked me last night!

yeah but was he 'walkin around' at the time??????hmmmmmm

Maybe you should form a relationship with him before you go asking for sex. Ask him to the movies or out to dinner. See where things go... If you two like eachother and the moment is right, I am sure it will happen bro... Lata, H.

You don't waste any time do you? Would you do the same to a female neighbour? "Hey, I see you're on your own now... How about we have sex".Build a relationship as you would with anyone else. Just because he's gay doesn't mean he's desperate to have sex.

well during this last 2 winters he let me use his snowblower to do my driveway and when I did I did his and sometimes he would return the favor and do mine

should I go to him and tell him that if there is anyway i could thank him, let him know

You didn't say if he liked it when you snowblowed him. And he hasn't snowblowed you back. Maybe he's shy. Or maybe he just doesn't want to have that kind of relationship.Have you spoken to him beyond discussing such manly issues as snow removal equipment? Are you implying he might be willing to just jump into bed with you because he's gay? According to your survey, you've had intimate relationships with both sexes. How did those happen? Was there any kind of relationship before the sex?

I want to but sometimes life is not fair and can't get to talk to him much. That was in the past about other relationships but when I was we worked at it

I want to but sometimes life is not fair and can't get to talk to him much.I don't think there's any magical trick to starting a relationship, whatever the intent of the relationship. I don't get to talk to Jennifer Aniston much, but I wouldn't mind having some sort of relationship with her.I think you need to either find a way to talk to the guy, or you need to move on, and leave it as a fantasy.

thanks