Hi, I'm very shy about the genital region, but I want to get rid of the fear. So I've finally taken the step of making a picture of my penis on my webcam, and then show some, lol, I know, VERY WEIRD (almost pervert-like). But I think once a few persons have seen it, then I won't be so shy all the time (I'm really really scared of this subject, lol) and it doesn't matter if the people say 'err, that's not good', but I just want to show, I hope anyone can understand me But I also kind of figured that posting a penis of a 14 year old boy is kind of illegal, even when it's your own picture. Is there any way I can?
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Trying to get rid of my fear
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Well im not cop but im pretty sure that its illegal anyway you post it. I dont even understand the logic behind doing this. So posting it online will make u feel better about it? and feel better about it in person? i dont get it
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I can see what you mean, but are you sure you wouldnt be even worse if they started posting it all around the internet??? think about what the people might do with the pics before YOU do anything with them
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David, yes, it is illegal. Curiously, you're allowed to possess the real thing, but not a photograph of it. Since child pornography laws are supposed to be protecting the children, it would be very bad luck for you to get charged, but I have heard of it happening - though it's probably very rare compared with how often it's done. There is also a real possibility that your picture may end up on a child porn site or newsgroup - you need to be aware of that.I think oneteen's suggestion of using the local pool or gym changing rooms might be better for you, anyway. I appreciate that getting naked face-to-face with people is scarier, but it's a more real experience.
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Okay then, thanks for the reply's, never mind the whole picture subject I understand what you're saying.
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In reply to: If you want to be comfortable with your body being seen naked go to the local Y and use the community showers. People will see you and it wont seem abnormal or illegal. Most of the guys in there walk around butt naked and dont really care anyway. Just dont draw attention to yourself just be just another guy in the locker room. I agree with this. I recently started swimming at my local Y, and I was never comfortable being naked around other people, mostly because I was never sure if I was adequate down there, especially coming out of a cold pool . Its still a bit strange and awkward to me to be showering and walking around in the locker room naked, but everyone else does it, and I'm gradually getting more used to it the more times I go swimming there. Fortunately, I seem to be more than adequate compared to most, and I'm not the only one with a cold pool shrinkage issue - everyone has the same issue. The reality is nobody really cares - we're all guys, we all have penises, so it doesn't matter.
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well i wouldn't have such a big problem with other people seeing me naked, if i didnt get a hard on that fast lol, ok, im only 15 (well 11 more days), so is that anything near normal to get a hard on from... almost anything :angry: its really annoying, i wouldnt care going to community showers if it wouldnt happen :O
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i used to be very shy about my penis, i hadnt ever seen other mens penial regions.... so i was just a bit self confident. i always thought i was really small compared to the rest of the world and all kinds of things. my girlfriend was a bit shocked by my penis, she encouraged me to measure it. and it is by no means as large as alot of guys out there. but its larger than the average "bear" haha i guess. anyways, ive learned that there isnt really any reason to be embarrassed of your stuff. its yours, its how it is supposed to be and theres really nothing to be uncomfy about, they all work the same.