Confused? now you know how i feel.This is how the situation stands right now, i practically convinced myself that I did not want a girlfriend not so long ago after a roller coaster of thinking whether or not any girl would like me as much as i did them. So i considered it safe just to try and detach any feelings i had for any one and i thought I was doing pretty well. I didnt cut contact off and so i still had some female friends. And now it seems one of them likes me more than just a friend and though i still have the mindset of not wanting anything i think im wavering and i dont understand but when she asked me to meet her to go hang around and stuff I said yes fully knowing i shouldnt. I mean this girl is what i consider hawt and its like this shouldnt be at all but I know that im either gonna be real hurt because im expecting to much or whatever or I might hurt her by being too friendly but not wanting to have a relationship.This is something that is making me write morbid poetry on black paper with black ink, fans of Henry Rollins will get me haha but seriously . I dont want to get hurt, niether do i want to hurt. I want but i dont want either mainly because I dont believe I am ready, I have not done diddley squat with no girl, maybe for good reason I dunno.But the main question is how do u break down a friendship so much that you can be friends but not even consider getting together as a possibility.And long time no see I just got internet connection renewed .
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I so dont want a gf but why do i?
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In reply to: But the main question is how do u break down a friendship so much that you can be friends but not even consider getting together as a possibility. I have no idea. If you two like eachother why not give it a shot? You cant go through life avoiding relationships out of fear of being hurt.
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Live life, MrJust! There's no guarantee you won't get hurt - there never is. The choice is between doing nothing and gaining nothing, or throwing yourself in and seeing what happens.What is "hawt"?
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What you need to do mrjust is relax :smile: dont push females out of your life and dettaching every emotion you get towards them, and dont make them rule your whole life and your every thought be about females and how to get them to like you, just be at ease. relationships and sex isnt the only thing out there to do you know to be happy you do not need a gf