How to ask her?

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Okay - I'll be honost with you.. I'm in the 10th grade and never had a girlfriend. The reason being - I've never asked a girl out (most likely).
I plan on asking this girl out Saturday (2 days for now). After I give my story, I need you guys to come up with some romantic way to help me out.
Okay, I've liked this girl for a really long time. Okay well only a year. Anyways, a few monthes back me and my friend took this test. This i what it looked like.
1.) Put a Girls name that you personaly Know
2.) Put a girls name that you personally know.
3.) Then a buncha other questions.

Anyways, I put her name on number one - and some movie star on number 2.. Then at the end of the test it said..
That number one is suppost to be someone that you really like - and number 2 is someone that you really like but dont stand a chance with. (Of course the test was correct.)
So the next day, my friend (after sharing tests) Tells her that I like her!

So, I was thinking.. If she likes me she'll approach me and I"m all good from here. (5 Weeks Later) Nothings happened yet.

The last couple weeks, she's been staring and acting all giggly around me. For example
-Running up to me and poking me in the side.
-Saying Hi, and waving with a really sexi smile.
Then I've noticed her staring at me on occasion (which is probably because she can't figure out why i'm looking at her).

Anyways, TONIGHT.. My friend comes up to me (The same friend that played the game), and says..
"I got a girlfriend"
so I'm like... "I'm happy for you"
He told me who it was... (Not the girl that I like, thank god).
Then he's like, "Yeah.. and (so-an-so) whos even a bigger dork than you, already has (the girl I like's) number!"

Of course, he said that really loud so she could hear.

My eyes got real big... and I really felt embarressed.
Anyways - I'm mostly afraid that he's going to call her before Saturday and ask her out (since he asked her for her number tonight).

He's a HUGE Geek... And she's like really hot.. Even though I'm still really worried. (Not even knowing if she already has a boyfriend anyways).

I know this post was kind of jumbled, I hope you guys can make sense of it.

If you can , help me

This is so adorable! lol. Well Anyways some ideas? I guess I'll see what I can help you with. It just depends on what length you're willing to go.This is a really sappy old idea but I guess you can get her a bouquet of flower tell her your love will last as long as it. However one of the dozen is a plastic flower. Meh. Lol. maybe have a card written like my love for you will last as long as this bouquet and like would you go out with me?Another. Is you can buy her favorite pastry/cake/dessert from the store. Buy icing and write your message on it. Bring her to a secluded spot is the best. Just come out and tell her that you like her. Then ask her out.Something simple would be just to hug her from behind and ask her out...but make sure she knows its you and try not to scare her.In the middle of the conversation just don't think and say out loud you love her. If she doesn't respond at all and continues talking..she might not like you. If she ask what did you say...say it again and hope that she feels the same way. I think this way is the best way to break the ice for asking a girl out but I may be wrong.You could get her a card....or home made. Write a poem about your feelings about her and the last sentence is if she would go out with you. Or something or that sort. One thing sweet is to borrow a $5.00 from her. Keep it folded with a note safely attached to the $5.00. Write I love you and I want you to be mine. Give it back to her...and just wait.If you wanna be physical, kiss her just out of the blues..but watch out for the eyes. Hopefully you aimed correctly. If she responds giddy, but remember to ask her out.A simple way is to just make a cd all romance songs and record your voice on their asking her out.This is all I can think of for now but I'll write more if I come up with some. Well good luck!!!

Well - I really don't see her that often.. and when I do I'm around (ALL) of my friends.. This has prevented me from asking her out b4.. Only If I could have a minute alone with her.I really just knew what she thinks of me. I'm afraid I'd get slapped if I kissed her out in the blue like you said. (Even though that'd be the most fun approach)Should I let my friends know that I like her? Was thinking they might help me out? (Most of them don't know her so It couldnt be that bad?)

Well aren't you trying to ask her out? You could tell your friends to rally up confidence, but if you wanna ask her out before Saturday I suggest you to call her and ask her out. go in person to ask her out. Try something simple and requires little thinking. LIke the gift giving one. Give her a gift with the note and just run....because you seem shy.My advice. Don't think and just do it.

I don't plan on asking her out before saturday.. I plan on asking her out ON Saturday. I'll see her Saturday morning. The hardest part is going to be getting her by herself (theres going to be other people there too)... After that, I'm not exactly sure what I would say..I don't think the best option would be to call her. She didn't personally give me her number - and if I look it up and call her, wouldn't that give her a stalker type impression?

Well. My advice again is don't try to get her alone, if you can then goodie. But don't wait to get her alone because if there is a lot of people in the house..its gonna be hard.You can try by asking her if you can have one minute alone outside with her. Just pop the question.Just tell her this, "I like you(a lot) and I wanna go out with you" If its easier don't look at her, look at your feet. If you call her randomly...its not stalkish. Especially if you guys are friends..and its sweet if you went through all the trouble of finding her number and calling her. Its not stalker like at all.If you like her, why are you waiting? You're one question away from love...do you really wanna delay this. Be confident and just take a deep breathe and ask her out. if its hard then just write a note and give it to her.

One Question Away from Love..I like the way that you put that. Don't draw her away from the crowd? Hm. Maybe a little whisper would do? I'll keep thinking about it (Since its all Ive been able to do for the past couple hours)

lol well not like don't. but if you can't then fine. If you can better! lol. well hopefully it helps.

You just confused me..

Well I thought I gave you the wrong idea of not being alone.I'll rephrase it.Ok. If you can get her alone then ask her. But if in no way you can get her alone..then ask her then. Does that make more sense?

Of course it does..
Lets just hope I can get her alone.. Multiple things can happen..

The best thing: Were the first 2 people to arrive..

The worst thing: She doesn't show up.

Okay well.. I've been laying in the bed for what seemed to be hours (45 minutes).. Trying to go to sleep..
This is going to sound real dramatical, but I cant do it.. The reason being, because I can't stop thinking about her.
It brings tears to my eyes wishing that I had asked her out tonight. Get things over with, make it to where the other guy wouldnt have had time.

So I had to get up and come back online to post.. Now I'll sit here and stare at the click, most likely untill I fall asleep at my keys.

I'm not sure what to do.

All I can say is - if he gets to go out with here.. He most likely doesn't deserve it.. He may like her as much as me, but theres no way in hell that he could like her more.

Sigh its hard I know. If you want ask your friend to ask her for you. I don't think you're ready if you can't. You're letting go of a chance of a lifetime because you're too scared. Overcome this fear, its what life is about. Going through obstacles and getting the reward. If you can't do this, I suggest you to stop asking for ways. Because you can't depend on anyone but yourself. So march your ass tomorrow and ask her out. Or always be scared of just saying six little words.

I've tried asking my friend before.. It's obvious that he doesn't want me to go out wit her.. Heres a conversation that I had with him just moments ago.Erik: You pissed me off yesterdayErik: hahErik: oh wellFriend: huh Friend: what did i do? Erik: "& He's a Bigger Dork than You!"Erik: ......Friend: well he is Erik: That isnt my faultFriend: huh Erik: You don't have to rub it in just because he got her numberErik: That doesnt really mean anything.Friend: she doesnt like him Erik: GoodFriend: lol Friend: thats why i said it Erik: If she didn't have a boyfriend.. I would have asked her out last monthErik: You made me sound like a pussyFriend: does she even know anything about u Friend: lol Erik: You told her that I liked herFriend: along time ago Erik: If she didnt have a b/f I think I would stand a chance w/ herFriend: um ok Friend: i dont think so because she hardly talks to u Erik: hehErik: Thats okFriend: ? Erik: but when she does talk to meErik: well..Erik: lets just say I'm not stupidFriend: ummm ok.... Erik: I dont even know what you mean by she doesnt talk to meErik: Everytime she walks past me she either pokes me, smiles, or says HiFriend: she is polite Erik: Yeah butErik: She doesnt do everyone like thatFriend: everytime she walks past me she hugs me or kickes me Erik: Any idea what her b/fs name is?Friend: i dont think she has one It sorta helped me out a good bit.. Seeing how I found out she may not like the other boy.. I can't wait untill Saturday.