ok so me and my ex girlfriend had sex a little over a week ago, i used a condom and it didnt break, when i pulled out i held the end of it like your supposed to and when i actually took it off i took it off real fast and some left over cum got on me. now my girlfriend is a week late for her period and is really stressing out. she has been doin dance dance revolution a couple times a week though and she usually doesnt work out and she is pretty stressed could this cause her lateness? how safe are we. i mean i pulled out correctly i just took it off and got some on me noone on her. please help. she also had sex with someone else but he was safe too. are we just paranoid :confused:
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Pregnant
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yeah i heard somewhere change in appetite and more excersise could cause a woman to be late, and im rretty sure teh otehr guy was careful knowing how my ex is
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Well i hope im not giving bad information, but i do know that most of the time the girl ovulates 14 days before her period, its not absolutly hard and fast but its pretty well known. And when ovulation occurs the egg only last for about a maximum of 48 hours (probably shorter). And from what i understand it sounds like you had sex pretty close to her period, so chances are you didn't have sex when she was ovulating. Plus, and the most important factor is that you used a condom that didn't break and afterwards none of it got on her. So i think you are pretty safe. As for the other guy, who knows about him. So if she is pregnant get a DNA test (i wouldn't trust her word). I hope somebody verifies or corrects this information, but im pretty sure you don't have much to worry about if i understood your situation correctly. Another suggestion would be to get a preg test to put your minds at rest, it could be just the worrying that is throwing her period off.
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yeah, well thanks for the info and she was due the day after we had sex, so yeah. she has done some pretty heavy DDR and was stressed out about a ticket she got so im thinking thats it, she has said she started to break out and her breasts are sore which are signs of her starting soon so we shall see.
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well i hope so, she woke up today and as of now still hasnt started. when should i have her take a test?
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You guys have already been sexually active before this I assume...She could take the test now. It is most acurate with the 1st urine of the morning and will show results as soon as the 1st missed period.
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we were eachothers first. shes had sex with two guys and the otehr guy only once, she is the only girl i have been with. ill tell her to buy a test
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im beginning to think she isnt willing to take a test. and its been a week and a half, im starting to get really worried.
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Why wouldnt she take the test?
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afraid of the outcome i guess. idk shes under so much stress she;ll never start if she keeps this up, plus all the DDR shes been doin the past couple weeks that she usually never does
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man its been almost two weeks and she still hasnt started, please have her start soon i cant handle this.
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man im in the same boat as u are....my gf isnt starting but it doesnt seem that bad..she is gettin vaginal discharges...ask ur girl if she is gettin any period signs like discharge or tender breasts or cramps