well i have been having sex with my gf for a while.. sometimes i will be fine and last an ok amount of time in bed.. not usually 2 long tho... the most ive gone sober is 15-20 mins... but sometimes i find myself pulling some 30 seconds or a minute.. i dont know why this is -- could it be due to a fact that my penis can be super sensitive or something.. or can it have something to do with me masterbating without lubrication.. any input would be sincerely appreciated
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I have a question..?
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o and ive read on here people saying that they can "come when they want to" how exactly do you do that? cuz that could probably help me last longer
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The "stop-go" technique could be helpful for you.
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Did you know the average time to ejaculation for guys when having sex is only 3 minutes? This is assuming no stop-and-go techniques to prolong anything. But from the moment he inserts his penis in the vagina to the time he ejaculates, going at an average pace without stopping or slowing, is only 3 minutes. So don't worry about it -you're fine!
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most guys dont last that long anyways so you should just try what the above posters say.
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as in stop and go.. do you mean - once i insert my penis,, do a few pumps then stop? because sometimes thats all i can handle. but ive talked to my friends and stuff and some say theyve lasted an hour plus mostly every time they have sex, and then there are people who say they are around like 30 mins or more every time, i want to be able to do that.. like ive done it for a while b4 but i cant seem to do it everytime
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search the net for kegel excersizes... it seems to work
try this.. get to know your penismake some time for yourself. and start masturbating.. and keep a good feel for what your are feeling, and when you are near ejaculating stop masturbating and press the muscle under your balls (the kegel) you van press it with your finger but also you can do it without touching it just like you move your arm etceetc. also put some power on your abs and buttocks... it'll work and just go on for a while.. you cabn also do a rythym like first activate your kegel, abs and buttcoks for 10 counts and then 5 short counts and then continue masturbating when the urge is a little less
when you perform this often it will teach you to feel when you are going to ejhaculate and control this time using the techniques described above during sex -
Don't forget, Apathy, that your friends are under a lot of pressure to give times that won't get them jeered at. So they don't dare say "two minutes".
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yes i know about this.. but even if. they still have prolly done it but i know this should be in the masturbation section.. but i wanted to know if masturbating without lubrication can effect this in any way?