i wondered of anyone has heard of this and whether they could shed some light on the matter....
my bf is uncircumcised(im female, so i apologise now if i spell any male body parts wrong!).... and we tried to have sex last night (it was his first time) and he was in tremendous pain.
we first of all tried using a condom, and it really hurt him while (both of us) tried to put the condom on. i think he might have a tight foreskin...but it seems pretty flexible to me, it slides back a fair bit.
we then tried without a condom (no lectures please, i take the pill), and he couldnt even penetrate me because the skin was being pulled back too far.
i really want to help him and provide him with some answers... he feels totally inadequate and i realise this is no fault of his
Pain during sex
What do you mean by slides back a fair bit. How much is that. It seems as if he is still a bit sensitive and the frenulum might be a bit tight. Soem stretching excercises might be in store. Plus extra lube will make penetration much easier and reduce stess on the forskin.
It could just be his penis isnt used to bare touch, mine used to hurt quite a bit if I pulled back my foreskin.
Mine eventually became less sesitive because I started to pull it down everytime i went to bed. Does it only hurt when it's touched?
and does the foreskin go far enough back (i.e you can clearly see its slid back as far as it can go without gaps)
You're here to live. So live.
First of all...is he able to retract the skin ALL the way when the penis is erect? If the answer is no then do what sdp said.
Im not sure why it hurts him with a condom...
thanks for your help, i sent him a copy of this thread so hopefully things will get better.
wait hold on
how old is he??