theres this girl i really like
i pretty much have since i got to know her
my problem is that i am too scared to ask her out
then i finally tell her how i feel
and shes like wow i feel the same way
but the next day she starts going out with this dude
its like what the hell?
then this guy trys to start some shit cause we are 'too close'
so now i dont know if i should wait for this relationship to end or try to squeeze in
what do you think i should do??
I don't think its smart to squeeze in....but she probably was already going out with this guy or she likes that guy too. I think you should ask her why.
I say you just keep on pursuing it and see what happens. Ive been in your position twice. The first time i won the girl over, the second time nothin really happened except we became really close friends. So iono what the difference was in those situations, but either way somethin good happened
Take some kickboxing lessons. I used to go to Balleys total fitness (yes its also more men) I got this kick ass trainer and learned a lot. Then you should try to squeeze in and he messes with you be like "i know kickboxing BIATCH, so move out of my way."
Well I'd talk to her. Does she like the guy more than you? If so, or equal its not that good to squeeze in. You can win her heart now and feel great. However later another guy can do that too..she doesn't seem that loyal then...in my opinion but do whatever you want.
it seems like she likes me more
shes always complaining about him
and we hang out all the time
i think i might make some kind of move
to try and sqeeze in
but i dont know
Yea she most likely wants to get with you if she starts bitching about how bad her man is. I guess she's kinda showing that she's not in a great relationship and would love it if you swooped her up...however analyze more than what meets the eye...I honestly don't support girls doing this. I've done it...it was bad.
I dated a guy for like 3 months. I was in love with his friend because I've liked his friend since 5th grade. Then I started growing cold to my bf back then. I wanted his friend to make the move, it was obvious he liked me and I liked him. We finally got together after I broke up with my bf. However, I realized things weren't as great as it was. Everything was a fantasy. This was lie 4 years ago. Anyways. If things work out cool, if not, take it as a lesson.