There's a huge difference between gay people and rapists/serial killers/paedophiles. That difference is that 95% of gay people do not go out of their way (whether through 'choice' or 'genetic compulsion') to harm others by having sex with them or entering into relationships with them.By contrast, 95% of rapists/serial killers/paedophiles do go out of their way to harm people by raping them, killing them and their families and sexually abusing their children! It doesn't really matter whether they choose to do it or whether they do it because of some uncontrollable desire, the simple fact of the matter is that in the overwhelming majority of cases, they destroy the lives of other people.When a gay person has sex with someone of the same gender or even when they enter into a relationship with someone of the same gender, they don't usually wreck a life and if they do end up wrecking a life, it's not usually because of the sex or the loving relationship although it may well be something connected to those things.
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AM I GAY
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You have cause for concern when you find yourself attrached to another man or have romantic feelings for another man. Although I think there is a fine line between the physical and sexual attraction, I believe the physical comes first.
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it's normal to have those feelings. I am gay but wanted to deny it for so long. I had a good friend who hated gay people in high school and i just found out he was gay. It could be that you dislike homosexuals because deep inside you are afraid of being gay yourself. It does not make you a bad person. You are still young, once you get older, you will be able to tell for sure if you are gay or not. I denied it until I was 23.
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I believe gayness is hereditary. I have many friends and family members who are gay and I am gay myself. I believe there is a gene we are born with and some scientists have proven that.
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I agree we are born gay! I knew i was gay when i was 5 years old..I think i had a gender identity crisis and I never admitted or accepted my gayness until I was 23.
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I had a good friend who hated gay people in high school and i just found out he was gay.That happens a lot. Many gay bashing politicians and religious figures turn out to be gay (or if they're British, cross dressers...the Majors era was revealing).
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I agree to your comments! Amen! Bi guys are sexy! I am a lesbian but you guys are cooL! Whatever floats your boat honey! :smile:
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I think you just KNOW if you are gay. I knew I was gay when I was 5 years old! I had feelings for other girls all through high school. I think men are attractive, but couldnt ever have sex with a man. Alot of lesbians get off to gay men porn and straight porn..pretty strange. I think its because we wish we had penises lol
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no difference....they both basically mean having a like and sexual interest in both men and women. I guess if you are bi-curious you can call yourself bisexual but if you have had relations with MEN AND WOMEN you are Bi-Sexual LOL
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Hey dude im 15 and i had sex with a girl when i was 14 and then got fucked by a guy a few weeks later and i liked the guy WAY better. One reason i think i liked it more was guys knwo what guys want..Im also bi and a metrosexual and hey all i can tell you is if you really want to find out if your gay or not wait a few years youll know then. :smirk: