Heya. I've had sex with four different partners, but NONE of them have been able to get me there. I do it just fine when I masturbate, and I really enjoy sex, BELIEVE ME, but i never have an orgasm, and it's really starting to upset my fiance. I never really pinned much importance on sex, and I don't mind not getting there as long as he enjoys it. However, he's getting really upset about it. What can I do to get there?
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Can't get an Orgasm
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Stop masturbating and show your partner what feels good for you.
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I've tried, but he can't seem to do what I do with my hands, even when he uses his hands, and he wants me to have an orgasm with SEX.
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You've prehaps become too accustomed to the way you masturbate for an orgasm. Plus, not all women can orgasm through sex.
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nods ok, thanks hugs
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Why is he so upset??? If you are enjoying sex, then it shouldn't matter whether or not you orgasm. The goal of sex should not be orgasm, but rather to have a good time regardless.
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My only partner I was with for over 4 years and she had only 1 orgasmn throiugh intercourse, as long as it is being enjoyed it's all good, but make sure he knows your enjoying it! that may help. a bit of noise and so on just to let him know it feels good, if it shows you are enjoying it it may take the emphisis off making you orgasmn.
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it shouldn't matter whether or not you orgasmIt doesn't matter? Of course it matters.