Alright, Im new here and have had 0% luck with girls. I like this girl and have for awhile now. we met this year and talk in school and online like everyday. At first I thought she was interested in me but she suddenly has this "kid" she likes now. Im not sure if it is a smokescreen to get me to make a move or if she's serious. The suspense is killing me help!
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Newbie needs help
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The only way you'll be able to find out for sure is to ask her in some way. You could tell her that you're disappointed that she has someone else she likes, because you like her and if she didn't have someone else you'd like to go out with her.
If you find a direct approach too scary you could ask her friends.
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dont know any of her friends enough talk..
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Don't get too know her "too well" otherwise you'll probably get the "I just wanna be friends" line...
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Alright im working on getting a number so we dont have to talk online only. any ideas
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Man i have been in your position one to many times. You just have to go for it. As i like to say it.....grow some balls and tell her. lol im not tryin to be mean im just tryin to help u out so u dont make the same mistakes i did. That friend zone is CRAP and you dont wanna be there.
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Alright well last night there was a little problem but i'll lay low for today (so she misses me) then ill start being assertive when we talk 2morrow. sound good?
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Anyone???
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Sorry man i had work all day lol. But it sounds good to lay low for a while. You dont wanna make her sick of u but then again u dont wanna distance to far that she forgets about you. Just keep it cool, do what you gotta do and dont necessarily drop something to talk to her, let her know you have a life.
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alright didn't talk 2 her at all today. im probably gonna hold off for a day or two more as well. dont know what 2 do really...
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Well like i said dont completely ignore her. Just keep it cool, dont worry about it so much. Have you heard anything new about that kid she "likes" lately?
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No she hasnt brought him up but then again we haven't talked much. Still im not sure if he's real or whatever
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She brought him up, she says shes got a cold and is afraid 2 talk 2 him tonight which i think was just a round about way of saying she was talking 2 somebody.
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im screwed, i need help
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I'd say just go tell her you like her...If she doesn't say she lieks you now she won't say she likes you whenever you would've asked her later.
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its going 2 be real embarassing if i get turned down. i have 2 see her everyday until june then
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We all have to take chances in life... this is one of them for you.If you never ask her you'll regret it forever.
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she's not even talking anymore i have 2 start all the conversations. ready 2 call it off
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when u cant get it done with help from internet strangers u know ur screwed. im done with girls
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O relax man your makin a bigger deal outa this than it is. You have to just tell her you like her, grow some friggin balls and do it. You'll never get a girl if you cant tell them you like them. Just RELAX and do it