I am 16 and male... I have fooled around with many girls, but whenever they reach for my dick, I always cancelled out... Made up some excuse...Because I am worried that I won't be able to get IT UP!My dick is pretty small (4 inches)when unerect, and I feel they would be disgusted by it...And the only way to get it up is by touching it...I dont want to fuck up my relationship with my new girl when she pulls it out...Has anyone had this problem? and what should I do....?
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NO ERECTION
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Four inches soft isn't small at all.Can you get erect easily when there isn't a girl around?
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Everyones dick is small when flacid (although not yours apparently), and it doesn't really matter how big it is when erect anyway, unless your girl is really shallow.
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You've given new meaning to the phrase "shallow girl".Saying you're embarrassed because you're 4" flaccid is like saying you're embarrassed because you're only 2 meters tall. You're definitely not below average.
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Did we have to get height into this? Lol
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Ok like everyone else said you do not seem to have a prob with size.Where did you get the idea you had a problem in the first place? I am sure if you are 4in flacid then you have a nice sized puppy....you need to measure yourself while you are hard.also dont worry about only being able to get it up after you have been touched I think sometimes this is normal too.
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In reply to:And the only way to get it up is by touching it...There's nothing wrong with that, as long as it gets up. Not all guys can get hard without touching it. Most require at least some physical stimulation to get hard.
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Thank you people for your help...
It gave me some confidence... But I stilled fucked up last night and stopped going any further with the girl... I basically want our first time really fooling around to be great for both of us, and I didn't think I could perform last night... AHHHH... Im really going crazy... Though maybe my dick isn't small by standards, but I still believe it looks tiny, and I think she will too... Anyways... boosts of confidence always help.. THANKS -
At some stage you'll need to take your courage in your hands.Perhaps you could start with skinny-dipping? Then you're not expected to be hard, and you could build up confidence.