Okay people here are PHOTOS of me, 'Ugly Minger'
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Looks do NOT matter
You're telling a woman who says looks matter that looks don't matter. What is wrong with this picure? For some poeple, looks do matter.
You sound you're meeting nice women, and you must come across well, which is great. But if you were targeting 20-year old women who look like models and hang out in clubs, as Minger is, it might be a little more diffult for you. But you're wiser than Minger.
All we have to go by is your picture and his pictures. I really don't care how good looking you are. You're just making Minger's case for him, and showing us how shallow you are.
Well, yes I do admit that there are people of different kind. And no Im not a club-fan. I take a trip there once per two weeks or so. I love club atmosphere though, since I take it kinda differently, life for me is outside the club and not within. Hard to explain.In clubs, yes, looks play a large role. I remember my first instances where I managed to leave a club without my voice being normal.And of course there are women for whom the approach Im using, just doesnt work since she is different. People are different, so yes Im sorry for generalizing the saying that looks do not matter. They matter for some people.Its not harder though to find out "what the girl wants", no matter which type of person she is. This comes easy as I said before, when you adjust yourself to doing that. The problem is actually giving her that. And some girls do want the looks. But youd be amazed at how few girls actually consider looks important in the long run. Im not saying that they dont take this into consideration at all, no everyone does one way or another, its how important it is for them.But there is no girl whod throw away love she is having, for a playboy she thinks is really hot. No matter how the guy she is in love with, looks.But Minger also generalizes things.But come on, its easier to get a 18 year old blonde babe into bed, than it is to get a 22 year old student from a university. No matter blond babe or not.Damn, I hate generalization of women based on their haircolor. Stupid.Yes, you are right that the way I approach women, is harder to use on party-animals. Im not saying its impossible, since Ive done it, and even though we arent together anymore, she herself is not looking anymore for guys from a club.But yes, Minger if this is truth you want then there are surely girls who think you are ugly.Dont get this the wrong way. You think that they ALL think youre ugly. Most dont. God Id have the girl from univ write a reply here if she hadnt gone home already..I dont know why Im even bothering writing here though... Im trying to councel a man who thinks that 18 year old blond babes are the ones who are important in this world..
Shallow Minger is looking for a young, pretty girl to sleep with. If he thinks you're as attractive as you do, you are just what he's looking for. You are also deeply concerned with looks.Contast what you said with what metrica_chris said. He is not shallow, at least in this facet of his life.
"Shallow Minger is looking for a young, pretty girl to sleep with."I have to agree. But its generalization. As far as I understand he is a virgin right?So I dont expect him to understand that sex which is emotionally involved, doesnt ask if the girl is 18 year old blonde or not.But yeah, now re-reading Mingers replies and sayings in here, I think he needs to be more worried about his personality than looks.I dont really feel Ive got anything else to say in this thread, and I think the long minutes I spent on those couple replies Ive posted here, werent really worthy since Minger, in his ignorance, just doesnt seem to care because he just doesnt understand."Shallow Minger is looking for a young, pretty girl to sleep with."And I have to repeat, I agree with that..Chris out..
In reply to:I think the long minutes I spent on those couple replies Ive posted here, werent really worthy since Minger, in his ignorance, just doesnt seem to care because he just doesnt understand.A lot of people besides the original poster read this stuff. It wasn't a waste of your time. A lot of insecure males might benefit from what you said.
In reply to:Bottom line: Ugly Minger is just as shallow as I am.Jeeez, isn't that what I said? If you are as shallow as he is, then he is as shallow as you are.And shallowness isn't always intentional. It's completely possible that you can't help it.Do you think metrica_chris's postings made sense, or were they just fanciful foolishness?
In reply to: A lot of people besides the original poster read this stuff. It wasn't a waste of your time. A lot of insecure males might benefit from what you said. Yes I hope so too. However, for me every person and situation is different. Ive already done this mistake once here, by starting generalizing things.As for people being shallow or not, dont really know what to say. I know some shallow people, but I kinda consider shallow differently than what Minger is. Hard to explain so I wont try.
In reply to:I know I'm a beautiful woman and I don't need anyone else to tell me otherwise. He's ugly and his attitude isn't helping him.Ohhh. Listen to you. So let me ask you, IF you were single and looking for a partner, and IF I had this great personality, would you consider a relationship/date with good old me?if not, WHY NOT? You see what's the point of putting on a fake smile just for people like you? It's not as if I'm gonna get it with people like you am I. Jeez.
In reply to:Even if you had a good personality and you still lacked self-confidence, I still would turn you down.What about if I had both? Come on Miss Shallow, answer that.
UM, you lack self-confidence, but you get angry and aggressive when someone agrees with your perception of yourself. It's not a good combination - but you can change. Not quickly, but slowly you can improve your self-confidence.
In reply to:Honestly? No, I wouldn't. Why? Because you aren't my type, to be blunt.oh this is funny now. "you aren't my type". I'm sure there's another meaning for that........ SO, what is your type then? Come on, tell us.
In reply to:Not quickly, but slowly you can improve your self-confidence. For whom exactly?
For yourself.
And what good will that do?
You'd be surprised what a little self-confidence can do for you...
...call me
no1sexpotinusa. Wow, and theres you saying you werent shallow earlier on. I notice you have the looks requirement right at the top of your checklist. I wonder what that means.
Guy...just let it go. If you talk to girls the way you talk on these boards, it's no wonder you might be having issues. Would you really go up to a girl and say, "hi, are you shallow?" Just let it go. There's someone for everyone, dude. Just stop wallowing in self pity and get your ass out there and just start approaching girls. The worse thing they can say is no...But I doubt any girl will say no, you're too ugly for me, sorry. If they do, FUCK EM!
You've become pretty annoying. Is really possible for anyone to be "ugly" and shallow? Youre just like every other guy in this world. You want the beautiful, trophy girlfriend. Youre just upset that THOSE girls wont give you the time of day. Do us all a favor and take this advicve: AIM LOW!!!
