I need some advice

---

Hi,
Im aware that alot of people with good advice used this site and i was refered by some one to get me to log on here for some advice. So here goes..

Im a lad in my mid 15's and theres a real nice girl i like whos 14 (grade below in school). We went out a few years ago, say 3 1/2 years ago and it didnt work out mainly because a mate of mine started saying things about me.
Well now im getting even more anxious with me going through the stage of my life and stuff like that and i really really want her to be with me.
My Mum and Dad say they think that she likes me and they know i like her. My Mum and dad and her Mum and Dad are good friends and they talk about me and this girl being really good together.

So down to the point: I need to know if she likes me or not before i ask her to go out with me. If there are any known tricks or signs that could help me out that you guys know of, Please tell me. Of if you know of any more advice you could give me (what to say - The right things to do) then that would also be very much appreciated.

Thanks

Aka

Well i mean theres not much i can say about her liking you without some info on how she acts around you. But if your parents think that she likes you then she obviously must be doing something obvious that says she does. Basically be a gentleman around her, open doors for her, ask her how her day is, you know stuff like that. Your still young so you dont have to start anything serious with her, but i know what you mean i was your age once and had the same situations. I say just take it slow with her and most importantly be yourself, cuz if shes gonna like you u want her to like you for who you are.

Don't wait until you are sure, Aka, or you'll wait forever and miss the boat. "Faint heart ne'er won fair lady." (That's a quote or a proverb or something.) There's more than enough indication already to ask her out, so screw your courage to the sticking place and do it.

Well i should go right into it and ask her , but i asked her abt 4 months ago and i got no awnswer.Well she does laugh when i make smart comments and she was playing soccer with me earlier today.I am really stuck...Any one got ne more advice

Did you ask in such a vague and uncertain way that it wasn't clear you were asking at all?Ask her something definite, like going with you to something next weekend.

I said to her : "look . Ive got this urge for you and i really like you as a mate but i do like you as more. What did you think of me"she said:"well urgh i get on with you well and stuff"the i said:"well how bout the way, going out with me"and she walked off. I dont know what to do

I think ask her to something specific.

but im afraid shell say no and not talk to me . She has done it before

If she does, she does, and that's her decision. At least that will settle the situation and you can move on. You need to bring it to a decision, rather than just have it always uncertain.

Yep. I really do like her and i dont think ill ever be satisfied with her not liking me if she says no.

Any way , shes going to this disco tommorow night and i might pull her outside and ask her like quietly in the corner or something.

Just remember that if she doesn't feel the same way about you, it isn't the end of the world. If everyone gave up after being turned down by "the one" then we would have a serious population poblem. Good luck with her though.

Thanks, Any one got any more advice?

Just ask her, ive had that problem before and most of the time i just asked the girl and she said yes. If she says know just move on yah know