Another q- prem. ejac.?

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I have another question: as some of you might know i'm 14. i've just been a little worried lately because whenever i masturbate, it seems like it takes way to short a time. i've heard that people can do it for a good 7 or 8 minutes, maybe even more, but for me it usually takes no more than 1 and a half minutes, sometimes 2 at the very most. I know i'm probably overreacting and acting like a hypocondriac (sp?) but I just keep wondering if I might have premature ejaculation problems? I am definitely not a very open person, so I have never asked anyone about this. Any help would be greatly appreciated!!

No, that sounds pretty normal for a guy your age. Most people last longer cause they use the stop and start method where they go to just before they ejaculate then stop to calm down a bit, just for a few seconds or close to a minute, then they start again and repeat this. So theylast longer that way.Oh, and this should really be in the masturbation forum.

thanks for that. also, put this thread in the other forum like you suggested.

I disagree that this should be in the masturbation forum. While he was talking about cumming due to masturbation, the question was about premature ejaculation which could be from masturbation or sexual intercouse, but certainly is a function of the male genitalia. I think this is the correct forum.

You picking a fight!?!?! Anytime bud! Anytime!!!!

I know it sounds way too simple, but you should take your time when masturbating, to get to know your body better, and how it reacts to stimulation.If I masturbate non-stop, I will usually come in about 4-5 minutes. But since I'm always using the stop-and-go technique, I usually last for about 1-2 hours before I finally decide to end the torture and allow myself to come. All I do is simply either slow down or stop completely when I feel myself getting close to an orgasm, then once the feeling goes down, I start again. I can stop and start again about 15-20 times in a single sessions, except for those times when I don't stop myself in time and come too early.I guess the first thing to do is to stop being anxious about it. Fear (or stress) is the worst thing in those case, because it only serves to make you have less control over yourself. The moment you realize that you are in control and that you can take all the time you want, then things should start going more smoothly.Hope that helps.

hummm...Me, watching a porn film, 2-3 minutesnot watching a porn film 7-8 minutes to 14minutes

Yah thats somewhat the same for me titou. And when i do the stop and go i only go for about 11 mins becuz i get bored and i want to cum lol

That is a problem--putting off immediate gratification for ultimate gain. (I'm not saying that you're any different than the rest of us.)

Actually, I find the actual masturbation much more rewarding that the orgasm itself, though it makes for a great finish. Nothing better than stroking myself for a hour or two, staying close to climax all the way. I usually give up once the pleasure of being constantly near the limit becomes too painful :P