Me and this girl having been going out for awhile and we kiss alot just not make out so I was wondering how do start it and then once your doing what do you do. So basicly could someone just explain how it a goes down.
Honestly lad, its not about "following a guideline". You start doing that and it will be potentially akward for either You or Her.
Its actually really in the flow of things. Its not just about You, its about Her as well. Dont really know why Youre asking this (aka, is this Your first girlfriend?), but this should come naturally.
If You do insist however, then You need to feel the situation. See how intense she is kissing, and try to get the rythm of Her breathing and then match it. French kiss is never a bad idea, and to go further from it is to play with Your hands, slowly caressing her back or arms or neck (in the rythm of the breathing is never a bad idea). Then if You have control over the situation, You need to "guide her", aka start breathing stronger and slightly faster and see if She follows it. If she does then You can do more, move Your hand downwards and continue from there.
Making out is actually very similar to foreplay. And please listen to me if I say "TAKE YOUR TIME". When Youve made out for three hours straight then Youll know what I mean.
However its not really just about You, if She doesnt respond to the moves You make, then its not going right.
But Ill repeat, its not good following a guide, and You should just let the things flow the way they should. For the first time, it doesnt come any harder than Your next time. Its just that You feel insecure because Youve not done it before.
Well I just started to make out/french kiss whatever you wanna call it with my girlfriend, and I'll give you some little tips on things I've noticed.
First, if you kiss her and then she buries her head in your chest after you disconnect your lips, it probably means she isn't ready to make out, duh . (My gf did this in the first month and a half of dating)
If you kiss her and after you disconnect, she keeps her face looking at you, it might mean she is ready to kiss some more. If this happens, try kissing her again the same way you just did, only a little longer, then break off and if shes still into it, do it again a little longer, and keep doing this, slowly progressing into making out.
Again, this is just with my girlfriend, who has never dated or kissed anyone before (also my first time for both), so these are just little things noticed from a first-timer
I came up with a neat little trick taht worked for me n my GF's first time-
After about a month n a half, I started kissing her with an open mouth, she eventually noticed, n one day after school we frnch kissed, two weeks later we made out for the first time. (greatest feeling in the world btw) This way, I sublety showed her I was ready, then let her make the decision of when to move to next level.
A drumming paintballer, what'll we think of next?
one day after school we frnch kissed, two weeks later we made out for the first time.
Isn't kissing "making out"?
kissing can be just a peck.. but i thought when you frenched someone .. that was making out
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.
You know what I meant. Locking lips, whatever.....