well wen i have sex with my girlfriend i tend to come quite quickly, i know about all the kegel excercises and whatnot but i need advice on how to last a little longer, right away wen i put my dick in her i feel the need to come.. like right away the second i enter it - do you think that i should put it in then pull it out and do it slow to like get used to it.. cuz i just put it in a start going - causing me to blow early .. any input will be greatly appreciated , thanx
I need some advice..
I think i have something that may work, me personally im a virgin so im not 100% sure if this works, but when the time comes im deffinately going to try this, count to 100 slowly in your mind....and then once you get to 100 go backwards, 99,98,97,96,95 this might work give it a try
One of my male friends told me he used to think about his Mum and that stopped him coming but also caused it to flop!! :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
Of course you're ready to go....the pure excitement is enough to cause any of us to want that intense feeling of orgasm/ejaculation. I'd say enter slowly and just enjoy the sensation. Be entering and then "going to work" you'll finish quicker for sure.
Do you feel at all nervous when you're with your girl? Nervousness can cause early ejaculation. There are also ways to increase your endurance as far as lasting goes. You can try the start stop method, in which you begin to masturbate and then you stop right before you hit that "no return" feeling.
You can kill two birds with one stone by having your girl give you a hand job and tell her when to stop and then start again. Not only are you practicing the start stop method, you're also creating an open relationship as far as sexuality goes. Eventually, move on to actually having sex and performing the start stop method. The more comfortable you are, the longer you can last.
im not nervous at all with her, and its not like im saying i go for a lil bit and them i bust - sometimes its right away, the second i enter her - ive had sex with her for longer than that,, like 10-15 mins but thats rare - wat im talking about is more of an often thing
First off use a condom if you arn't. Then you may also want to masterbate before sex.
As well get to know your womans body so you can play a bit first, so she can get pleased and work up. That way when you come she can be pleased already.
Have sex more then once in a day, that will help as well.
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