my bf wants me to give him a bj but i dont relle kno how or how to please him with a good one!!
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How do u give a guy a good bj?
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Suck it, lick it, stroke it , play with his balls like a bag of marbles. Just do what you think would feel nice, and don't be afraid to ask him if there is anything else he wants.
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Also, remember that the most pleasurable part of the penis is the head area, so the shaft area itself provides very little sensations. It always made me laugh when a girl would jack off the shaft of a guy non-stop for like half an hour, since if she was rubbing the head with the same intensity he'd never even last a fraction of that.
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make sure to wrap your lips over your teeth ..and use your hand
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do guys like teeth, not biting tho?
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Never recieved a bj, but just from being a guy, I can say teeth would NOT be nice...
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I like to kneel between my partners legs, then start by licking his balls, guys either love this or hate it......then with the tip of your tongue drag it firmly up his shaft, follow the thick vein that runs up it :smile: tease the head of his cock with your lips, and tongue, use your hand too, as you would if you were giving a hand job, but with your mouth moving on the head of his cock in time with your hand. Vary what you do all the time, do different things, take him all in, just lick the head, use your mouth and hand at the same time, my other half loves it when i suck really hard on the head, I got a kinda "What the hell were you doing then it was amazing" response LOL but I don't do it a lot,I guess thats the key to a good BJ, vary what you are doing all the time, watch and listen for his reactions, so you know what he loves and what is 'just good'. Tease him, don't go full on for him to cum straight away, act as tho its the best thing you can do for him.......I love to give my partner a blow job, its something i really enjoy for lots of reasons.......but mainly cos i know how much he loves them.
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Daaaamn...do what she says! My God, I wish the girls I've been with were even half that involved. The only thing I'd like to add, is that what they were saying about the head being more sensitive is true, but more specifically the spot on the underside of the head is the most sensitive part of the penis. That glan is the closest spot men have to the female clitoris. Oh, and about the teeth. If you're going to use them use them sparsely, and light, but best to just not use them at all. The lips and tongue are much nicer. And if I can just say one more thing as far as handjobs go, in case you're working that in with your blowjob, you're not trying to start a lawn mower. Feel free to go at it but remember, especially if you're not using any sort of lubrication, it is somewhat a sensitive organ.But in general most guys are just happy you're doing something to it. Don't let your inexperience hold you back. My ex-girlfriend had never given a blowjob before me and she was a little nervous about it to begin with but she learned quickly. It isn't as complicated as you might think.
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i have always had the best ones when my gf puts her mouth over my head just under the head is where he lips would be and then she twists my dick and her head it it feels really good. also if u let him cum in ur mouth is a real turn on
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About sucking the head, I must say it is a very pleasurable technique. I was never sucked by a girl, but in my teenage years, I was flexible enough to suck myself. The most intense orgasm I ever had was when I just started sucking the glan like there was no tomorrow (since at the time, I was still experimenting and didn't even know how to jack off).
It felt like a burning sensation deep down my urethra that would grow hotter with each long suction, until I felt as if my penis was full of boiling lava. That's when I started orgasming like crazy, with the contraction being *very* strong. Just ask him before trying it one day :smile:
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In reply to:And if I can just say one more thing as far as handjobs go, in case you're working that in with your blowjob, you're not trying to start a lawn mower. Feel free to go at it but remember, especially if you're not using any sort of lubrication, it is somewhat a sensitive organ.Perfectly stated.
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just ask him wut he thinks feels good to him
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In reply to:Poster: ~AngelWitch~Subject: Re: how do u give a guy a good bj? I like to kneel between my partners legs, then start by licking his balls, guys either love this or hate it......then with the tip of your tongue drag it firmly up his shaft, follow the thick vein that runs up it tease the head of his cock with your lips, and tongue, use your hand too, as you would if you were giving a hand job, but with your mouth moving on the head of his cock in time with your hand. Vary what you do all the time, do different things, take him all in, just lick the head, use your mouth and hand at the same time, my other half loves it when i suck really hard on the head, I got a kinda "What the hell were you doing then it was amazing" response LOL but I don't do it a lot,I guess thats the key to a good BJ, vary what you are doing all the time, watch and listen for his reactions, so you know what he loves and what is 'just good'. Tease him, don't go full on for him to cum straight away, act as tho its the best thing you can do for him.......I love to give my partner a blow job, its something i really enjoy for lots of reasons.......but mainly cos i know how much he loves them. wow, nice detail there Angel.
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Thanks Knuckler LOL hugs
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be sure to use your tongue on the area under the head where the "v" is.
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What really works for me is to lick below the head and soft bitting can help too. Use you hand also kiss his penis. Maybe even play with his balls.
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well ya its already been well explained except whatever you do make sure for any reason he isnt nervous otherwise he may never orgasm because alot of guys may say they want one then when it actually happens they get so nervous it either takes a very long time to cum or its just not going to happen so whatever technique you use (id prefer angel's ) just be sure that he isnt nervous and also if you havent already dont be afraid to swallow the cum guys like that itd also help with letting him loosen up a bit except in a certain area