Ok i have been messing with this guy for about 4 months i like him alot, but when do foreplay he be too rough.When he rubs my clit he does it madd hard and starts to hurt me cuz he does it so long.When we be having sex he be biting me and pulling my hair and shit.Im not into that rough shit.When we have sex its all good,its just the other shit he be doin hurts me.How do i let him know that i dont like that without him getting mad at me and never having sex with me.I dont want him to think he sucks or anything cuz he doesnt.Its just my body is real sensetive and that shit be hurtin.
When the foreplay turns u off....
Shorty wit uncertainty~~
Next time he's doing something and he hurts you say 'ow', or just be like, can you be a little more gentle, i'm a little sore..
that doesn't make sense that he's hurting you and you aren't saying any thing.
i have told him to stop being so rough that i like it slow,but he keeps continuing it.
Shorty wit uncertainty~~
This seems pretty sweet and simply here. After you ask him to be less rough, to be gentile if he doesn't then you must leave him...
Your needs are something that need to be fullfiled as well as his, and if he is to rough for you he will continue. That is to say it won't change if you have asked him already.
That means you to arn't compatble, he likes rough you don't. Move on, it's hard but thats what it has to be.
Find someone that is sweet, and sweet to yoursenses thats the only way to truly be happy in a relationship.
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When we be having sex he be biting me and pulling my hair and shit.Im not into that rough shit.
Then tell him, and if he doesn't stop it, leave. Sex is about TWO people, not just one person doin what they want, while the other puts up with it, if you don't like it do something about it.
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You don't necessarily have to leave him altogether. Just stop the sex and fooling around. Sex is only a part of the relationship. Once you stop putting out, myabe he'll get the hint
Well, if you don't really like rough sex and your guy like rough sex, perhaps you can do same thing to him like grabbing his balls and squeeze like theres no next day! If he complains, then you can say "you hurt me during sex so I hurt you back!"
most foreplay with my gf is pretty crap to me. unless im about to cum and she sucks me, then i would prefer her to not do anything.
and also, if im really hard and im just fingering her, then it sometimes goes soft and doesnt get hard again (for a few hours). and licking her before sex usually makes that happen even quicker, so i prefer her to finger herself till she is wet, then i go straight inside her, then i pull out near the end and let her suck me off till i cum in her mouth.
THEN i lick her out and finger her and do the same thing again when i get hard :laughing: (but in a different position on the second time)