Wow

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Umm...yeah..sooo...wow! Anyhow, they guy that I'm always incessantly raving about...I was on the phone with him and we were saying goodbye...and I can't be 100% positive but I'm about 85% sure he said, "Love you.", while we were saying our goodbyes. I asked him what he said and he said he didn't say anything..that he was just trying to say goodnight..and I said okay. I said goodbye and I swear he said it again, "Love you. Bye." It was quick like he wasn't wanting me to exactly hear what he was saying. Is my mind running away with me? I'm almost certain I heard him say it. And if he did of course I didn't say it back. I'm not really sure what to say if anything. I don't want to say it back for fear I could jinx it but I also think that two months is not enough time to know someone on that level. But then again...I do believe in love at first sight. I am walk, talking contradiction and I don't know how I do it. It makes sense to no one but me and I can't explain it.So anyone have any opinions about this?

Heeey mom, what about Adam?

This guy I'm always raving about, son, IS Adam!

AWWWWWW Are you hoping he said what you think he said hon???? or will it, (as he probably things it will) - freak you out?

Ooooh ok :laughing:
I thought this was about some other guy, sorry

Yeah, my friend who I was insane about said "love you" while saying goodbye on the phone. I returned the comment, she doesn't talk to me anymore. Sorry, not trying to put you off. If he said it twice, then he definately meant it... maybe.

Angel ~ I'm not sure what to think. All I really know at this point in the "game" is that I really like him. If he said it, I'm happy he feels that way. It kinda takes the pressure off a bit. Definitely not freaked out at all. It's just that since he works so much we hardly see each other. I guess absence makes the heart grow fonder? I had always heard that saying but I didn't really think too much about it.But no, I wouldn't be freaked out if he actually said it. I don't really think there's much of a reason to get all freaked out over stuff like that. I don't guess you can help what you feel, I'm just not ready to say it back yet. I can't be positive that he did say it though which kinda sucks. But he said it twice and both times it was the exact same thing. Anyhow, yes, I guess you could say in a way I am hoping he said it.

I really admire the fact that you're not one of those people how just answer "love you too" just cos someone said it to them It took me a long long time to say it to my other half, and he told me he loved me lots every day............but when i did say it he knew i meant it Absense does make the heart grow fonder, but puts pressures on at the same time I guess. Things seem to be going good for you and Adam, even tho you don't get a lot of time together..........I'm hoping he said it too hugs

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Are you trying to be even more annoying with the purple font?

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If a purple font annoys you hon you seriously need to get a life *chuckle*

F*ck you buddy and your opinion too because I don't want YOUR opinion. Please leave me the hell alone. I have had all I can take for a lifetime of bullshit and I have freaking had it. Time to start clearing out the crap starting with you. I don't know what kind of problem you have with me and I don't really care. I just want you to leave me alone. I don't follow you around from post to post and start shit with you and I don't go knocking the people you date so just leave me alone. I'm tired of taking shit from people like you. I'm not a doormat for you to wipe your goddamn feet on just because you've had a bad day and feel like making someone else miserable. You know what? My entire week has just been bad so sit on it and rotate for all I care. I'm not here to play dummy with strings attached for you. If you don't like that I'm happpy and you don't like what I post DON'T FREAKING READ IT AND JUST SKIP OVER IT! Now, you have a good day or a bad day. I don't care one way or the other. Just do it away from me and my post because I AM HAPPY!

wow such hatred and such language.....my virgin ears :wink:

And Angel....the purple font is sexy :grin:

Not hatred. Annoyance. I am tired of him raining on MY parade just because he can't have his own.

Awww cenfath, it sounds like he loves you but is scared as to how you feel about him. I'm all giggly and happy for you! Do you love him?I love the purple font Angel! It's almost as sexy as you.

Well said

I don't know for sure. I'd like to say yes but I really can't. See I have a long history of picking Mr. Wrong. And it's not a pleasant history. I have one ex that I am actually on speaking terms with. Adam has an ex that he is on speaking terms with. I can't help but feel a twinge of jealousy though when he talks to her and sends her txt msgs. It makes me feel all weird. I heard from a girl at work that he got back together with his ex. His reason for her saying that was that the woman overheard him talking to someone and asked who it was. He told her it was his ex and the woman assumed that they were back together. Then Saturday he said he couldn't come over because he had family in town but said if we didn't get off work too late the next night we could spend some time with each other. That didn't happen either. He didn't actually leave the store until about 11 or so I think and he had to work in the morning. I am the kind of person that doesn't think 11 is all that late so I get paranoid. I automatically assume he has some hidden agenda or that he is lying to me even if it's perfectly plausible that he really did think it was too late. I am probably being ridiculous and just overanalyzing things again. I could say, "I'm only human." But that's just an excuse for me to do what I want and not own up to my responsibilities. I should trust him because he's never lied to me but I'm not sure how to or where to start. I keep telling myself that I just have to and try not to worry about whether I get hurt but for some reason when I start setting myself in motion I hit the brakes to come to a halting stop.

When you have been hurt in any kinda of relationship, its really really hard not to put those situations onto and into the next one. However, doing that, can be a self fulfilling thing, you have to try and take a step back, and let things just go as they are gonna do. Worrying about things won't change them, or make them less likely to happen, in fact a lot of the time it will do the opposite. The only thing that will kinda help that, is being honest with eachother, and telling how you feel. An ex on the scene is ALWAYS a big thing........in general i'm not a jealous person, I don't mind him talking to other women etc, however, when he talks about his ex I can feel the jealousy welling up inside me, I have no idea why, I guess cos they shared things and they were close etc........but shes not a threat to me, so i don't really get it! It must be VERY hard for you, the fact he has contact with her, i can honestly say i wouldn't like it, and i don't know how I would cope hon. 11 at night might not be late, but, if you have been working all day, I guess it is - I know that all i would wanna do it strip off, relax for a while and go to bed, not to mention that he had to work in the morning. You have to trust someone, unless they show you they can't be trusted. Put yourself in his shoes, you were working etc, had family commitments, and you so wanted to see him, but you couldn't, then you find out he thinks your off with your ex LOL you would be hurt and angry that he didn't trust you. Trust and honesty is the foundation of any relationship, be it friendship, lovers, parents etc, if you feel you have that hon, then step back and enjoy the time you have together, and that he cares a lot (even loves) for you. You have to try and not let the way you have been treated in the past ruin your relationship now, but I know its very very hard.big hugsAta - I agree i love purple kissDelish - thanks darlin blush kiss

So it's better I should date someone like you? No thanks. I'll pass.The truth WOULD hurt you jerk if it were the truth. He is not a loser. At least not in my opinion. You're not here to help me. You're here to bring me down because you can't find a single ounce of happiness in your own life. So you think you have to make someone else miserable just to make yourself feel good. Please just go away and leave me alone.

In your dreams screw boy. Now go away.

Sorry, not anyone can date me. I don't know what kind of said disillusioned world you live in dear but I'm typically very picky anymore. I want a nice guy. Not a prick. Adam IS a nice guy. I can't help it you're not.

If you're the nicest guy on the planet then Charles Manson is the nicest guy in the solar system.