Guy might die and i love his girlfriend

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Ok there is this guy i know and he recently got into a car crash and got head damage and is in critical condition in the hospital and is most likely going to die. but the thing is i am compleatly crazy about his girlfriend. I got to spend time with her a while ago and we got a connection i made her laugh and smile and get close and i got the feeling she liked me but im kinda a shy guy so i never went to do anything. now fast forward a couple weeks i see her at the mall she comes up and gives me hugs and stuff and i go somewhere real quick and shes gone now fast forward a month and i see her pull up to pick up her boyfriend she gives me a smile and that was the last time i saw her. then 2 days later her boy friend was DUI and crashed and in the hospital with a small chance of living and i dont know what to do. now this girl is pretty fine. i mean drop dead gorgeous and people were talking and they were just like "ya if he dies... you know everyone is gonna be after ____ " so it seems like everyone is gonna be after this girl. I dont want to be an ass and go up and start hitting on her after she has had such a tragedy.sorry if that didnt make much sense i kinda rushed it.

You definitely don't wanna go hitting on her after her boyfriend has died (if he does) jeez people are so damn selfish......(the other people who say they will) If you want to do something for her, support her, be her friend

Yes, she'll be going through a tough time, so if you care about her, support her.And dare I say that this will put you in pole position if he does die?

pole postion?

*** update!! ***The guy seems to be doing good and is able to move so he might be fine. But he is most likely going to be in rehab or something like that for a while since he was underage and cant drive"

I realise now that "pole position" was a particularly tasteless metaphor. Sorry.

I am really glad to hear that this guy is doing well. Its tragic when young people die because of stupidity. Thanks for the update.

Damn, if I had that chance I'd go for it. Girls must be very vulnerable in that position and I'd have such a good shot.

And you wonder why you can't get a girlfriend...

because i havent found a lucky situation like this dude did

So you would walk up to a girl, who's boyfriend just died and expect her to go out with you? Sorry but that's not how it works

Depends who the girl is I reckon. "L" from my stories would do it. She's about as two-faced as a double-headed coin.

Yeah, I imagine if you say the right things.

If my boyfriend died, and some guy came up to me and asked me out, i would either slap him, or stair in amazment on how completely stupid he must be

yes i agree.. its also very disrespectful

I imagine something like "Hey, I'm really sorry about your loss, if there's anything I can do..." would be subtle and innocent enough.

More like sneaky and coniving

oh well, im not in that situation anyhow so it doesnt matter now...does it

I feel sorry if a girl is ever around you in a "situation", but your right. right now it doesnt matter

u think id just say that to fuck her and leave her, maybe id be honest and just take that oppurtunity to catch her single.