Okie Dokie.....So i dont know if anyone remembers my issues from before but heres a little review. So im in love(remember i dont use the love word unless i absolutely mean it) with this girl i work with, ashley. She has a bf which makes everything difficult, and everyone thinks she likes me and so do i. WEll long story short i went out with this one girl who turned out to be a whore lol and it made me realize how much i want ashley, im just crazy about her cuz shes such a good person and i love everything about her. I truley care about her, we're really close and talk all the time and hang out from time to time. Hanging out involves her comin to my house and we sit on the couch together and watch tv. WEll she keeps breakin up with her bf and they get back together. She hates him yet wont get rid of him because he threatens to kill himself(hes so full of shit) and because theyve been together for 2 years and she doesnt want it to be a waste. She always complains about how miserable he makes her, it makes me sick. So basically what im sayin is what should i do, ive told her i liked her before. My friends keep tellin me to kiss her, on the lips this time. I Hug her, she'll hug me, ive kisssed her on the cheek but i jsut cant bring myself to kiss her on the lips cuz she has a bf and i think its wrong. But iono what to do, i need advice please....o and does anyone even remember my stories from b4? lol
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Back to Square One!!!
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Can someone please help me
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It doesn't sound promising to me. There's some reason she is staying with her bf, and it's not likely to change.
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dont waste your time man, i know it sucks but theres nothing worse than being the good supportive friend role, start looking
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Yea i know what you mean, ive been there many of times. The thing that throws me off is the obviousness that she likes me but she wont admit it. I mean its obvious to everyone around me. They point it out all the time to me. So thats why i dotn know what to do. i mean if i knew she didnt like me id move on, but this makes it so difficult
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sometimes girls have close guy friends which they are close to b/c they provide things that the girls' boyfriend does not. There has to be some reason she stays with him but she keeps you around for the extra comfort. Althought it's nice that you all can hang out..don't set yourself up for heartbreak b/c it sorta sounds like she's leading you on. She knows you probably hope that they'll break up therefore, you stay around but she still has him to.You need to tell her one more time how you feel....completely. don't leave anything out.Then, kiss her. Maybe she will feel something there that she will then know she doesn't have with him. if she stays with him then at least you know and at least you tried.don't feel bad for the kiss you are just trying to take her out of a bad relationship. if she doesn't take the opportunity then that's all you can do.
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Yea i know what you mean. To be honest i feel as if im being used sometimes. And it seems like we just go in circles. When im single she with her bf and they are all happy go lucky. Then i get a gf and she hates her bf and they break up. but then they get back together and i become single and back to square one again. And no matter how much it pisses me off im still crazy about the girl. Ugh iono nemore. but i agree with u whispringbttrfli. Ive just got so much shit runnin through my head right now, excuse me if i cant get the thoughts straight.
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Do some research on the term "cuddle bitch". You will see whats going on then.
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Let go of her and look for someone else. I've been in this situation, and it results in either a fist fight or a broken heart. Best to stay away and look for someone else, 3 billion females in the world, take your pick.