Help

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does it happen with anyone else that right when you put your dick into the girls vagina you feel that you have to cum right away... it sucks because right wen i enter her it feels that im already about to blow and i want to know if theres any tricks or something for this not to happen - because it happens most of the time and i feel the need to cum causing me to end early, and i dont want to be like this because i cant have good sex witout it lasting for only like 20 seconds, not even a minute man - HELP PLEASE

Masturbate befor you are with her. Usually the second time you cum takes longer than the first time. Second idea, enter her and remain still for a few seconds so your brain can adjust to the pleasant sensations it it getting. Go slow when you pump.Excerises can help but you seem to be on sensory overload

well i usually dont have time to masturbate before im with her - but ill try to put it in and then chill for a lil - but i think it has to do something with sensitivity, is there anyway to lessen the sensitivity of my penis?

hey dude just a thought im not sure of this at all but u could mabey use two condoms or more than one so u dont feel as much... and to keep from cumming so early try and think about sumthin else like idk sumthing that is enteresting like one of your hobbies or mabey just counting backwards in your head from 100-1 idk if this will help but i have sorta the same problem let us know how it goes.

Doubling up on the condoms is asking for trouble. The chances for a tear are much enhanced when you use two condoms. I'd try to find a better way to lessen the "tiggger-finger" like the start-stop method to condition you to last longer or if you're young enough to recover quickly, have her give you a handjob or a blowjob first. Then you'll last longer for sure.

its has nothing to do with the start-stop thing because i cant even start.. im saying that the second i enter her i feel the need to cum and i dont know y.. i mean i can masturbate for like 20 minutes ez but when it comes to fucking - im done in a sec

Sounds like you may need to get yourself to relax more. Anxiety can cause you to release too early I believe. Since you can hold out when you masturbate, I tend to think its a relaxation thing. Would be curious to know if you can still hold out if she masturbates you. Even though you can hold out when you do it yourself, your body may be used to your hand only. I dunno for sure, but I always thought popping too early had more to do with concentration more than anything else. You can try a few of my suggestions, but the relaxing one may be your best bet.

Have you tried either of the other two suggestions I gave you?

nah.. thanx for the suggestions but the double condom thing is a no-no and i havnt been with her yet, prolly this weekend tho