I like this girl I met through a friend alright then I got up the courage to ask her out we went out and had a great time but 2 days after she found some dude to just have sex with seems like. After 2 weeks she left him and I asked her out again to try and go for it again on valentines day cuz neither of us had a date and again we had a great time i felt like we really connected but then 1 day later she went on a date with a guy she works with and had sex with him, and afterward she tells me about it. The next day i saw her and we started talking she told me she want to turn lesbian because all guys want to to is get down her pants... I'm clueless what did i do wrong, did i take a wrong turn somehwere? I think i somehow became a friend i guess what are your opinions?
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A confusing situation...
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I suspect you're better off without her. It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants and she keeps changing.
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just like ineligibel said shes not right for you. from a girls point of view i think that she doesnt like u like a boyfrind. she likes to be around... maybe u havent told her how u really feel about wat shes doing and how u feel about her. about the lesbian thing ....eather she was upset and didnt mean it or shes trying to turn u away nicely(ive done it a few times)
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Yeah, Thats what i thought too but I didnt want to leave with out atleast trying, anyways now I've already moved on I just wanted to know If I could have done anything else.
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there was a time in my life when i thought all that guys wanted was sex. it's a horrible feeling. I think this girl probably feels like maybe she isn't good enough to be with a nice guy who does respect her. Although she has done nothing but rub in your face the fact that she has been sleeping around it's obvious that you cared for her so i think maybe you are just the guy to show her that hey, maybe there is a guy out there who likes you for you. i think you need to sit down and tell her exactly how you feel/felt. Plus, even if you have moved on and don't want to be with her now i think you still should talk to her about this. If she continues to just let guys use her then one day no decent guy will want to be with her. at least try to help her out now before it's too late.
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She's not right for you I don't think. Just having sex without knowing them is wrong. You could do much better than this. She sounds utterly confused and kinda odd. She has sex with somebody and says THEY wanted to get down her pants? Like holy crap that just doesn't make sense. Anyways you can find sombody so much better, so just keep looking and she will be right under your nose.
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NO you didn't do anything wrong sounds like that girl is a hoe just 4-get about her cuzz if she liked you she would be telling you about all those guy's she fucked and going out with them days after she went out with you.
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Nothing you can do--she wants to get juiced on premium.
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sounds like shes not really into you.. talking about other guys.. sleeping with other guys.. telling you about it!! And then saying she wants to be lesbian.. forget about her and move on!