My boyfriend and I have really only had sex one time. But now, my period is late, I've been really tired lately, and I keep getting this weird kinda dizzy feeling. I am only 15 and I'm about to go into 11th grade. I don't know what I'll do if i'm pregnant. He and I just talked about this tonight and I'm going to take a pregnancy test sat. But, if I am pregnant, we disagree on what to do. He just graduated and he's 18. He wants me to finish school before I have a baby and so he thinks we should give it up. I don't think I could ever do that. If i'm pregnant, I don't know what I'm gonna do. Does anyone have any advice on this?
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I am so scared!
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Im guessing you dumb asses did it without protection?
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Don't be so nice
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Your system could still be in "Sex Shock" from having sex for the first time. I'm very surprised that at this day and age you guys didn't practice safe sex..... I hope you are not pregnant too. Let us know how it turns out. Maybe some others can learn from your situation.
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Yeah, we did do it without protection, and it was probably to biggest mistake I've made. But, we weren't planning on it and there's nothing i can do to change what I did. I just have to look ahead and try not to make any more mistakes. So, I'd really appreciate a helpful suggestion. thnx
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You ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS use protection, if you see he is about to go in you with out a condom atleast on you STOP him and say no way. Now, you could be pregnant. How long ago did you have sex as to when your period should have started.
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I know what you mean... Sometimes you just have to say what the f**k. We have all been there before. Just remember this feeling if ever you decide to do it again. Did he cum inside or was he smart enough to pull out before he came? If you are pregnant, deal with the situation right away.. I personally believe that the age of 15 is way too young to raise a child...
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My boyfriend and I have really only had sex one time. But now, my period is late, I've been really tired lately, and I keep getting this weird kinda dizzy feeling.
OK how late is your period and how long ago did you have sex?
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I don't know what I'll do if i'm pregnant. He and I just talked about this tonight and I'm going to take a pregnancy test sat.
If you are you will have to make some of the hardest decisions that will affect your life, whatever you decide!
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He wants me to finish school before I have a baby and so he thinks we should give it up. I don't think I could ever do that. If i'm pregnant, I don't know what I'm gonna do. Does anyone have any advice on this?
I can see where he is coming from saying that, but, I could never give up my child, so it wouldn't be an issue. What I am interested in hon is whether he said anything about staying with you IF you did keep it, or whether hes just thinking, getting rid of it will solve HIS problem! It would be easier to have an abortion, than go through carrying and having a child to give it up to be honest, but if you are pregnant then no decision you make about it will be easy.
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Okay, to be honest, i really can't remember for sure how long it's been since we had sex. I think it's been about 2 1/2 weeks. And, I think i'm about 1 1/2 weeks late for my period. Also, I know he wasn't wanting to get rid of it for himself because he told me he supported me and today when I talked to him he said that if i'm pregnant it would really give him a reason to start being a better person. He said he's gonna get a job and start saving money, because I made it pretty clear that I don't want to give it up. Also, I mean, we really don't know if I even am pregnant yet. Maybe i'm just freaking out and tired because i don't sleep well because i'm worried. And, maybe my period is just late this month. If i'm pregnant, I'll just have to deal with it. If not, I have learned my lesson to never have unprotected sex again.
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Well I am glad to hear that you would both, step up to your responsabilities 'should' you be pregnant. Worrying as you sound to be, can stop you from sleeping, making your tired and less able to cope with things, which makes you worried, more tired, etc etc its a viscious circle, also, worry and stress can very often make your period late.If you do take a pregnancy test on Saturday, make sure you test your first pee of the morning, fingers crossed for you both, I hope the test is what you are both hoping for at the end of the day, please post and let me know how you are hugs
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omg. My period started today. I'm not pregnant. I guess I was just so worried that I made those symtoms appear. I'm so relieved. But, also, it could have also been due to that fact that I havn't been taking my anxiety medicine lately. I really feel so stupid. That's never going to happen again. Thanks for all the help.
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Only 50% of fertilised eggs survive the entire pregnancy, so you may have been pregnant, but it just didn't last. A lot of women are not aware of this and think that this miscarriage is just a heavy period.But as you said, it may have been because of you not taking your medicine, women's periods can be very different and confusing sometimes.
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Don't beat yourself up about worrying about something that could have been a life changing experience, it IS a scary thing.I'm really glad all is well with you, and you can stop worrying now hugs
