I'm a male (17.4), uncut, only recently retracted, and my head is still fairly sensitive. Sometimes during oral sex I when she's playing with the head of my penis, I feel like I need to pee. This seems like a common problem, but I'm fairly sure of the difference between feeling like an orgasm and feeling like peeing. Lately, I've made sure to pee before we do it (maybe an hour before), but I can still get that feeling, and it gets pretty strong if she keeps it up. Each time, I haven't been anywhere near orgasm. I don't want to just try letting go during, because the feeling is just as distinct as when I normally use the bathroom. She still has not been able to get me off, and this is impeding progress just a tad.
During oral sex
I've had that happen in the past, and I think the cause might be just the rush you are getting from being excited. You should just let it fly, I doubt you're gonna re-make the R-Kelly video, chances are you just have to bust a nut.
Your recently uncovered glans is just still too sensitive.
Yea i had this happen to. In fact after i felt like i had to pee, but when i went to the bathroom nothing happened i couldnt go
Sounds like me when I finally tried using lube and managed to masturbate with the foreskin retracted (it was a bit too tight to retract completely otherwise so it took me a long time to even realize that's how it was supposed to be done).
Since I still don't do it that often (stroking with thh foreskin is just easier for me), the foreskin is still quite sensitive, and it usually takes me a long time to reach orgasm, because rubbing my head for too long causes me almost unbearable pleasure/pain. It can't say if it feels like I need to pee since I'm very well aware of what I'm feeling, but that feeling of pleasure/pain is impossible to withstand for more than a few second and I have to stop for a little bit before restarting.
Okay, It's been a while but I'm back and the problem hasn't gotten much better.
I tried to just relax and let it go, but something did come out. I'm still pretty sensitive after retracting, so I can work on that, but I don't understand what exactly is happening.
When she makes me feel that way, I'm SURE it's the feeling I get when I need to pee. Being close to orgasm and being close to peeing are two feelings I definitely know.
It happens when she's trying to give me a handjob (not just playing with the head of my penis). I did make sure to go pee before anything happened (just about 20 minutes before). I let go and it did feel like urinating. Even though I had gone within the hour and had nothing to drink, I still had something to let out, like when you continuously drink water. I'm fairly sure that this is what's happening, but I don't know why.
Could it be something in the way that she's applying pressure or is it really just because I am sensitive? I've experimented a bit and I can't stimulate myself and feel that same feeling. Embarrassed and confused, I'm looking here for help.
Well this is getting rather complicated. It could be anything from damaged nerves or sphincter problems or what-have-you. If it really bothers you, I'd try seeing a doctor, a urologist being the best choice. While I don't thing it's anything serious, it wouldn't hurt to see a doctor just in case, and he might be able to answer all your questions. Good luck