ok so let me get straight to the point.. my dad hates boys. thats it he doesnt trust them like them and he epsecially doesnt trust them with his daughters or neices, or cousins. i am dying to get a bf and every time a cute one appears Dad scares him away. In my family there are 70% boys and 30% girls and they are sooooooooooo protective. my brothers have sworn to keep me away from them and my dad still thinks im 11. Anyway, every girl in my family gets what we call "fever" from my dad which is when he tells you about how dangerous boys are and notto wear short skirts and stuff liek that. OK let me give you an example of the fever i get. Ever since I started growing boobs he thinks there is something wrong with my shirts and makes me where his. When I went to manhatten to see a braodway showi wore a a cute skirt 2 centimeters above my knees and a 3/4 shirt to match and when we got back from on the train...HE DRAGGED ME HOME TO CHANGE INTO SWEATS IN THE SUMMER. My butt has gotten bigger and he makes me wear sweaters over them. He has scared away every single hot guy that has come into my life, and has gotten my brothers into it too. I am a dancer and I just love to dance and recently i was in a show during my hip hop dance i had on a skirt and and a blue shirt and he yelled loud enough over the cheering crowd "WHAT" you can only imagine my embarrassment. I love my dad alot i really do but he is really really getting on my nerves. HOW DO I MAKE THIS TORTURE STOP. Prom is coming up and boys are getting scared to ask me!!
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FATHERS WHO DONT LET GO!!
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well if your 14, and wanna go to prom, then it will be a juinor or senior, so yea your dad should be worried aboutthat...
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Your 14. Your still daddys 'little girl'. It doesn't matter if your breast or back side is growing, it doesn't mean he has to let you flaunt it. Wait till your 16 or so, then bring up the guys and skirts.Also, please stop using all capitals in your subject line. No reason for it. Thanks
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then bring up the guys and skirts.
When I first read that I was reading very fast and saw "then bring the guys up the skirts". Not a good thing to do!
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Many fathers are overprotective. My dad didn't want my sister to date until she was 16... lol. Anyways just give him time and he will come around and let you date, adn wear all the short skirts you want. They will eventually grow out of this overprotectivness.
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yeah well you gotta understand my dad does not plan on me doing anythinga at 16 "maybe your grandmother's age if your lucky" were his exact words. but i didnt mean to use caps i sorta forgot it was on. thats what happens when're babysitting 4 kids lol. oh my songs on
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hey kiddo, try to respect your dad's experience. Remember that he was the same age as you and the same age as your suters
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good ppint there my mom told me the reason he acts that way is because he was a young boy once and he knows how they can be with girls. never knew he was so bad lol
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and you will ALWAYS be daddy's lil girl!! Trust me! lolSoon enough you will bring home a decent boy and your dad will accept him.. im sure my dad doesnt like when i go out with my boy wearing a little skirt ... but he needs to deal with it!
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There you are again, saying that just because you're daddy's little girl that everyone will always be daddy's girl. Stop.
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oh fuck off...She said it herself.. that he acts like shes his little girl.. That doesnt just stop.. they will always feel protective of you.. Its not such a bad thing to have parents who care you know.. We're lucky
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If he gets too controlling, Stand up to him, tell him its your life and you have to learn for yourself. Just be aware though- There are some real nasty shithead boys out there. Reassure him that your old enough to know whats safe and whats not etc and you dont need his protection any more. He may be offended but that tough shit for him. Dont let him rule your life.