Hi, i am with this girl now, who was a virgin up to now. A while after we started having sex, she started complaning about being itchy in the vaginal area, from her words i guess its inside but not deep. The fact that she hasnt had sex before makes her afraid, although i belive its nothing important. She mostly complains about it when she is near having her period or shortly after. Any opinions?
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Itchy Vagina
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There could be lots of reasons for her complaining about this. She might have thrush, which would cause the itching, she could be slightly irrated inside, and thats why, she could have a slight reaction to the latex in the condoms you use (I hope) If she is worried I would suggest a trip to the doctor, just to make sure.Also, you say you don't think of this as important, but she does, baring this in mind hon I would suggest that you don't be dismissive when she brings it up (not saying you are) be supportive whether you think its anything to worry about or not.
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Look "hon" am more worried than her, but since she hasnt had any sexual expirience up to now, I don't want her freaking out. I suggested a trip to the doctor but she is doesn't want. Should we cut down on having sex maybe? She hasnt been a virgin for two months now, and we have been having sex almost two times per day. I already told her that maybe we should stop having sex for a week or so, let it calm down a bit.
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A trip to the doctors is the only thing that's going to help at this point.
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In reply to: although i belive its nothing important. wow what a really patronising reply "hon" .How the hell did i know you were worried since you said in your first post you believed it was nothing important!
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Perhaps the "it's nothing important" referred to the comment that she hadn't had sex before.He seems genuinely concerned about her or he wouldn't have posted.