Helping a brother but not really helping

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I have 3 brothers (8, 23,and 21) I really love all of my brothers and lately my 23 year old brother has been bringing home some girlfriends that I really don't like. Maybe its the clothes or just their atitudes. I don't know what been up with me lately but I've been giving them a hard time. Like this one girl who he brought to my sis's house and she barely had anything on (seriously it wasn't that hot outside) and even though she was trying to be nice to me she kept touching my brother and it really made me uncomfortable. I give him his breathing space all the time, but this I couldn't handle. So when he left to get a drink I kinda tormented her a little bit by sayign all these things about my brother not liking girls like her or that her clothes could suit a grimlin or that i have a pet terantula that i lost somewhere where she is sitting. Ok i said worse things that and i know what i do is wrong but i feel as though these girls he brings are taking him away from me. I used to spend a lot of time with him and now whenever i see him is after school or at his football games. now that he has found out what i've been doing hes kinda upset at me now. Ok hes really upset and hes barely talking to me. I dont know what I should do because i want him to be happy but then again i want to spend time with him too liek the old days. and i feel like im about to puke everytime i see a girl touching him. i mean ewwww. i literally found him making out in the car with this one chick. omg i almost set her on fire. but instead i jut through a pebble at the window and stole her bra. mean yes but i had a good reason. so some of you may find me as a horrible sister for what im doing but i really miss him and i cant bare to see him like this anymore

ha i stole her bra let me tell you i never ever ever in my entire 14 years of living have i ever seen such a huge size i didnt even know they come that size how did she even fit in the car my goodness

your brother is gonna have girls, let him be with them. its his life

yeah but its nasty :frowning:

He's a grown adult, he can do what he wants.

you cant control your brother, how would you like it if you had a boyfriend and he did that to you

Lol. Just tell your brother how you feel. Hopefully he'll understand, and you two can start talking again. That's the way it should be so please let us know how this turns out. If you show your feelings to them they will understand.

thats the point he does do it to meand i will tell you how it turns out hopefully it will have a good outcome

Well he's an adult, you're not.

i know hes an adult and i know im not but he was still doing things like that at my age. you seem to take offense to that

i tormented my brother when he dated girls. we are eight years apart and when i was about 10 he was 18. But i would give him a hard time because, yes i felt like she was taking him away from me, and i liked to torment him, even as a child. I was a bitch when i was younger. im 17 now and i don't torment him anymore. I let him have his space when he has girlfriends, and now that im dating, i am just waiting for him to torment me. also i tormented him when i was younger because when he was 18 and had a girlfriend he had no respect for my family, like when they would have sex, they would do it everywhere and anytime. in my old house i had this playroom that was upstairs, it was small but comfy, and my mom went up there one time to clean up and she found a used tampon lying on one of my childhood story books. apparently my brothers girfriend had been on her period and they did it up there and she put her tampon on one of my books. My mom found it all dried up and gross. thats what i talk about respect. they did it everywhere, like they broke the windshield in his hand-me-down car and made excuses for it that werent true, like she was stretching out and went too far, but my mom knew better. I think all little sisters torment their older brothers when they have girlfriends. its jealousy and fear that the brother wont spend time with them, i sure felt that way.

I'm not taking offense to anything. All I'm saying is that he can do what he wants to do regardless, you have little say in what he does.

More like no say, if my brother tried to do that to me, he wouldnt here from me ever

oh sowwy. but do you really think all little sisters do that to their older brother. i thought i was just be rude and i did feel that way. its hard giving up a brother you've known all your life to some slut who hates you. I mean she really hates me. But i dont care cause i dont like her either. but i tried talking to my brother yesterday and he just laughed (which i quietd by stuffing mashed potatoes in his mouth). But he said to stop being so overdramatic and he'll start spending more time but i have to get along with HER!!! so anyway he scheduled for us to go to the yankee game soon wither HER. I shiver at the thought of going with HER. But who knows maybe ill get lucky and she'll get hit with a baseball,.

Dude maybe she hates you cause your a bitch to her. do you honestly expect him to not have sex cause his little bratty sister tells him to? hes a full grown man and can do what he wants

WOAH BUDDY BACK OFF!! deep slow breaths deep slow breaths. no more replies for you. angsty aren't we. please calm down. If you have a problem with me then don't answer my post. plain...and...simple

hahaha you cant tell me not to reply

woah, man, you're kinda scarying me there

Apparently you want to control things you can't control.Ex. 1) Who you're brother datesEx. 2) Trying to tell people they can't post