okay im 15 and never been invited to a party with any freind, only one time and it didn;t count because i got invited just cuz i was freinds with someone else and they really didnt want to invite me, but is normal that ive never been invited to a party and im in 10th grade
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Parties
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Hey, I thought you were 14.. Parties are living hell. You dont know anyone and your stuck in a cramped room with loud music and smelly people, with a lot of high caffiene and aspartame drinks (Too much aspartame causes personality problems folks) and most of the time people who go to parties are loud and arrogant sods. Or their like you, not having a clue what to do or who to talk to.Im not invited to parties. Most of my friends dont like parties. Same thing happened to me about being inivited only cos I knew somone... Party goers are jsut one socail group out of a lot. If your not part of that group, no sweat. Doesnt matter. I count myself lucky I dont get invited to parties- You can never politly say no
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yeah i don;t think a party would be fun either but i'm just wondering if its normal not to get invited!
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I get invited to parties all the time. I dont go because I dont like them that much. Now kick backs are awesome. I can never say no to one. A kick back consists of under 50 people, music, alcohol and weed. Its pretty awesome.
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Kick-backs are awesome.. I'd much rather do that than a party!! Parties alot of shit can happen but at kick-backs youre more likely to know most of the people.. so it's really fun!
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ive been invited to many partys from girls but i dunno are u shy?i cant help u
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Kick backs sound good.... - the weed. Idiots. Some people get invited to parties becuase they are party people- Ie loud and are fine getting totally drunk and waking up fully clothed in a half full bath with a horse
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In reply to: loud and are fine getting totally drunk and waking up fully clothed in a half full bath with a horse How the hell did you find that out about me.......?????
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I avoid parties because of the drunk people... They are the worst to deal with. Not everyone, but most are jackasses or stupid when they are drunk. If I could find someone like me as a drinking buddy, I would drink more often. I'm calm, like to talk, and just kick back. I've only found one person like this. Oh yeah... If you go to a party, watch drinking and driving!! If you plan to drink and/or can't find a sober driver, try to find a place to stay LOCALLY (at the house... friend in walking distance) Next morning may keep you from drinking again. Ever.
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The worst is when somebody calls you up to ask what happened last night at the party. "Hey, what, I do last night""You stuck your tongue in that guy's ass"Then they have to call other friends to verify. And that's why my friends stopped drinking.
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I love partys so much i think there great. Espcally if theres bud or alcohol
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I used to never go to parties. I don't drink, smoke or do any drugs. I went to one at the start of last Summer but a certain "incident" made me stop going to any until a few weeks ago. I document the drunken behaviour, remembering who scored who and who did whatever else. I use all of this stuff against them in arguments and because I am the sobre one that does nothing, they have no retaliation.But if it was a choice between a load of drunken gobshites shouting and fucking, or a quiet get together where we talk and chill out... well, its pretty obvious what my choice would be. Apart from the drugs, kick backs sound sweet.
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I'm 16 and haven't really been invited to parties either. I have a lot of friends, and the one party i was invited to I got arrested for underage drinking. Go figure. So now I stick to drinking at my friend's house where we won't get caught. Parties are always being busted by cops b/c of alcohol, so I'm glad I'm not invited to them. They're stopped within an hour's time. But with bbq parties and such, I don't get invited to those either, probably b/c people know I hate playing games and sports and shit. SO w/e.I wouldn't worry about parties, there are other ways to have fun with ppl you actually know and like, lol.
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Only bad thing is all my freinds are goodies and they don't do anything "Fun" And If you're never invited to partie, people wont know you like stuff like that , and you won't get freinds like that
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Parties are a reason for immaturity and stupidity to reign supreme. Alcohol and other drugs are almost always involved in todays parties. There is no need to worry about not getting invited, because you WILL be much better off not attending the party. Youths only throw/ go to parties for social acceptance. This is what you seem to be seeking, which is perfectly fine and normal for your and really any . age. People are most likely not invititing you for reasons such as: They don't like you, the people you are seen with, extracuricular activities, appearance, and really the only reason is probably just your image(Which all of the listings sum up to). People just don't see you as a party guy and there is nothing wrong with that. Just don't do anything stupid when you do decide to go to a party. I would stay with close friends and the people who actually like and care about you just for being you.
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you know, your exactly right, but I want to be invited, even if i don't go, but thanx for the advice