when a condom breaks how do you know? i mean is it always a big tear and is it always noticable? or can there be really tiny holes or whatever that you can't see and then you can miss?
You'll know that the condom didnt break because his cum will still be in it. Its not always a big break. If there wasnt any cum inside the condom then you might be in trouble.
from what I've heard and seen generally the man will feel almost like a popping sensation, and a slight looseness in one bit of the condom. If you experience either of these the penis should be withdrawn immediately. To check if there are any holes in it after, you could try filling it with water to see if it comes out anywhere.
A condom splitting is not always obvious, so just be careful!
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you can only be 99% sure if u blow it up after...
Just don't let it explode! lol