for the last 4 years ive been jacking off raw..no lube.just putting my hand on my shaft and going up and down .. is this bad?
Nope, thats how a lot of people do. I've always done it without lube. And don't say raw, it sounds painful.
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Jackin off raw isn't bad and there's nothing wrong with it unless the raw jacking makes you raw. As long as the skin isn't dissapearing or getting friction burn, you're fine.
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just putting my hand on my shaft and going up and down
I'm assuming you mean you're holding tight enough so that your moving the skin of your shaft back and forth -- not moving your hand across the skin. There'd be no friction (rawness) if you're doing it that way. I'd actually say that's the best way to do it if you're looking for quick and clean.
Alternatively, if you're trying to simulate actual sex, lube is the way to go.
It depends. I'm uncircumcised, so my head is very sensitive and a rather tight foreskin when retracted prevents precum from being useful in any way. Trying to rub the head like that without lube is, for me, litterally impossible. I might as well be using sandpaper. Maybe you could describe exactly what you're rubbing with your hand (the glan, the foreskin, the shaft, etc)?