I need some help. I like this girl in my grade and i've liked her for awhile. She know's I like her because my friends told her, but i'm nervous now because I know she knows that I like her. The question i have is that one of my friends talked to her today and he said to her that I was nervous to come up to her She asked him why i was nervous to come up to her. She said to him to tell me that if i really liked her to come up to her tommrrow and talk to her and not for her to come to me first. I want to talk to her but I'm trying to get the courage to do so, any advice of what I can do? Thanks!
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I have a urgent question
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How old are you?
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yea how old are you....and get some flipping guts girls hate it when you wont talk to them especially about dumb shit like that
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That's exactly why I was asking his age...Because that's middle school behavior.And @topic starter... just go talk to her man. If you do everything through your friend you can kiss this girl goodbye. (Well you won't kiss her but you know what I mean)
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lmao, your right. girls mature faster then boys, so they've really grown faaar out of that
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Its really tough to try and help those Young Ones..but some things can be said anyway. You have to understand a couple of things. Since I dont know exactly how old are You (my best guess is 15 or so?), I can only know things You said, so Im figuring this is Your first time trying to do something like this..Well...You are making it harder for Yourself than it has to be. She is not a god or anything. She is just a person, just like You. You are attracted to Her yes, but YOu shouldnt let that grab You down.I love to use this confidence approach on older people, but its not really about so much a confidence at such a young age. I mean, yes of course You have to be confident, but puberty is such a strange age that it gets more complicated than that.Basically though, just go and talk to Her. It is not big a deal. Trust me on this one, this is the age where You need to get experience like this. This forum shows plenty of examples of guys who didnt do things right at Your age, and the best You can do for Yourself is to go and talk to girls. I dont mean just Her (since currently it seems that any girl every girl could also be the prohblem). Its good to try things out with Her. Good thing about youth is that experiences and life in itself arent so different so uits not really hard to find a topic to talk about which doesnt get either of You into an akward situation.Another thing is this friend of Yours. Apparently he doesnt have the problem You have. You think he made things harder for You but he really DID NOT. He made it simple. The girl knows now that You like Her. Its not something to be embarrased about (its wrong to be embarrased about that, its just natural and extremely good feeling, dont deny).Basically You are in a good situation. YOu dont have to come up with situations how to talk to her. Since that would put You in an akward situation. She more or less challenged You. So its easy, You just go and talk to Her, directly. As far as the age goes, its not the best idea to do so when She is with Her friends (tough age on that part and may make You feel uncomfortable). But do it when she is alone or goes somewhere. Also, too much planning is wrong. Remember the less time You have for "being nervous about it" the more You let adrenaline play the game. Which is good and usually works best.Also, one other thing, remember that it is a GOOD thing that You go and talk to Her. Its not just about Your relationship with Her. Its about You as the future man, and trust me its best if You get experience now than later. Bah I better stop confuising You here... Just go and do it. She wants You to as much as I could understand.And remember to smile.Dont forget the eyecontact. Its the precious and cute thing in any boy-girl relationship and can make good things happen for You If anything, Youll gain valuable experience, You will have to do this sort of thing alot more than once in Your life
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my guess is 12...15 is about a sophmore in highschool
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hey, thanks for the answer, i know what you guys are saying and it's not that i can't talk to her it's just kinda of the build up to asking her out thats all. Thanks again.
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man you didnt answer or question