For the last month, my boyfriend and I have been sexual active.. Since I was a virgin before then, I'd never had an orgasm. During sex, it's great and everything, but I don't have one. Even when he would finger me or eat me out, it would feel good, but nothing would happen. I've even masturbated and everything just to make sure I'm not weird.. and I have to have almost total clitoral or G-spot stimulation in order for anything to happen. Am I weird?
Problems having orgasm
Nope, fairly common.
Not weird. Very normal, unfortunately for you both.
Hey! It took me more than a month (more like about 2 1/2 months) to achieve an orgasm with my man. He is my first so I have no comparison, and I'm just speaking from my personal experience...
With me, I was comfortable enough with my man to have sex, but I don't think honestly I was ready to "let myself go". I know now that we just needed to get used to eachothers bodies and how they worked, what we liked and didn't like, and what turns us on.
I think it will happen eventually, you just need to trust them and be completely comfortable with them
Sorry if this post didn't make much sense, I'm half asleep still lol xxx
yeh i'm the same with my boyfriend, even though im very comfortable with him, its difficult for him to get me to a achieve an orgasm, everything feel great like you say when he touches me but i dunno...just doesnt work! i have no problem having an orgasm by myself tho..hmm, but were still fairly new to eachother and i still need to teach him a few things hehe ;-)