do men have better control of comming to soon the more time you have sex with the same partner or married when you understand how each others body work? Does several years of marriage cure this problem?
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Premature ejaculation
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**I think the fact that they would usually have regular sex would lessen the occurance of premature ejaculation, tho saying that sometimes my other half doesn't last long the first time....depending what we have been doin *grin*
some couples will start off concentrating on making the guy cum first, then spend time on eachother and it should be longer before he cums the second time, I think maybe a marriage or a long term relationship gives more time and understanding to tackling the problem.. ** -
Its usually gets better with time, more experiences, and using different techniques like start and stop. Not sure many studies have been done on why it can happen. I tend to think its a mixture of being very nervous and/or very very excited. The nervousness can be worked on I think, but if someone has you really excited, all bets can tend to be off, and you're gonna have to either fight it very hard, or just let it go.
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Some of it can be a physical issue too, like a really sensitive penis, or if the guy hasn't ejaculated in a while. In general, the longer a guy goes without an ejaculation, the faster he will reach orgasm. Like with me, if I don't ejaculate for over a week or two, then go at it, I can cum in as little as 10 seconds, no exaggeration. I cum so fast I don't even have time to get hard. But if I ejaculate everyday, I can last 3-5 minutes without stopping.
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FOCUS,
Does the same apply with sex and jerking off everyday ?
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Yeah, same thing applies