i dont know if this is the right place for thisbut i guess here it goesi dont really get along with girls at my school and have trouble meeting local girls that dont go to my schoolso heres the question:where do you recommend finding them, how do i get over being shy, and what do i actually say to them after i work up the courage to go over to themhelp please
Erm, well, I pretty much hate all the girls at my school apart from a few.. their all brand label addicted tarts basically with no appreciation for anyone being actually kind to them. And their b/fs treat them like sex toys. They are stupid... No sweat. Your probably just more mature or somthing. If you notice one who doesnt quite fit in all the time and get to know her (Find someplace out of school or itll be a living gossip hell) she might turn out to be just as alienated as you. I got to know one of the girls in my class who was normally really loud- shes not like that at all. She thinks everybody in the school acts hard to try and cover up the fact their scared. To true. She wants to be a clinical pychologist when shes older- Everybody acts different at school. I was lucky (Unlucky?) enough to meet my g/f online- Im totally in love with her and she lives the opposite side of the planet. But we work it out As for meeting girls in your community, go to a youth club or somthing (Not scouts or Brownies or whatever they are ) I go to a christain youth club and theres some nice girls there (Not necessarily christain at all though, hehe) and its a lot easier to talk there aswell than at school, as school totally removes all privacy. At a socail group you should find more confidence after a week/month or so and be able to approach a girl with no worrys (The girls at my youthgroup always steal my baseball cap, I have to chase them around to get it back ) just things like that which make things a little physical and jokey. I got a one in a million chance of meeting my g.f on a deserted game forum, on valentines day. Hope you get lucky. As for being shy.. Im shy when it comes to girls. I just jump in both feet first and say what Im feeling, and see what happens. More fun than trying to please her in every way and be somone your not and it shows who you are rather than a smarmy git.
"I was lucky (Unlucky?) enough to meet my g/f online- Im totally in love with her and she lives the opposite side of the planet. But we work it out"Wow...
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