My girlfriend and i who have been together for over a year and 2 months and in the last couple of months we have argued more than a couple of times do the other day She just told she wants to take a break but i told her it would be better to ot take this break and just talk things out. my question is do you think that taking this "Break" is a good idea or not? Please respond
Taking a "Break"
Here's my thoughts:First off, she sounds like she needs a bit of space. Now let me say I've never had the idea of a break come up. But let's see what's logical: she probably doesn't want to break up or else she would have just done that.Right now you're freaked out I bet. This is probably not going to help. Guys tend to get clingy when they're freaked out and into a girl...or at least me. So I'd say don't panic.What seems good would be tell her how you feel about her but tell her you also respect she needs some space and you'll do things her way.In my opinion there will be some risk to this in any case and you should be prepared to move on if a breakup happens.Also, it might be good to look back on previous arguments and make sure you didn't inflame the situations. I think arguments are inevitable but at least you have the control to deal with them maturely when they happen.
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