ok, the worst thing to ever happen to me just happened on Friday. Let me explain. School is just about over and I had signed up for a mountain climbing summer camp. We climb a different mountain everyday for a week. Well in order to go to this camp, the school required a physical all all students involved. No biggie. Well, last Friday was the set date for all the physicals to be done. All guys who were signed up had to report to the boys lockerroom. There were about 16 of us. We were all asked to strip down to our underwear. We had some forms to fill out and crap. Then I figured we would each be called to another room or something for a physcal. At least that is how I have always seen it done. But this time they split us into two groups. Then called the first group of us all to line up in a row and the doctor came down the line doing his normal stuff. We had to push our underwear down. This was SO embarassing in front of other guys. What was worse is the 8 guys not in the line were just sitting across from us watching waiting for their turn. ok, that was not fun, but here is the worst thing ever. I got boned!! I tried to think of everything I could like my grandmother naked, everything. It wouldn't do away. I was the only one that happened to. At least that I could see. Some of the guys were laughing! I think I turned bright red. Then yesterday it is all over the school. Everywhere I go I get snickers and people talking. I have even heard some comments about being gay! Life So sucks! Thank god shool is almost over. I think I am going to quit that summer camp. There is no way I can face all those guys again. Why did this happen? Why are guys so cruel? Even my best friend who wasn't even there hasn't hung out with me since then and has been avoiding me. Sorry about the long post.
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Worst thing ever to happen!!
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**OMG hon you must feel terrible, but, i don't think you will find its that uncommon, even tho you were the only one it happened to at the time. If you were my son i would say, grit your teeth and go to camp, if you don't it will only re-enforce your embarrassment, and the other guys will know it got to you. Make a joke of it if someone says anything to you, "well at least it works!" etc etc. If I know school culture, they will all be laughing at someone else for something else pretty soon. Don't let this spoil your fun in the summer, laugh about it with them, yeah its embarrassing, hell any of them would have been embarrassed. Its how you deal with this that will effect how people think of you, lets face it most guys don't have to be thinking of sex to get hard when they are young, my other half got a hard on when the nurse shaved him for a vasectomy!!! it happens........i don't know what else to say except don't let it get you down hon, it will be old news soon. \*hugs\* **
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Yeah, that's pretty damn ebarrasing to be honest, but my advice would as angelwitch said; go to the camp and joke with them.Atleast if you didnt have a tiny cock at the time like 3 inches or something it's ok
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Ask thenm what the hell they were doing stareing at your dick? Were they interested in something? Did they want a piece of your dick?
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the best thing to do is just play it off. If people point and laugh just say to them, hey you wanna see or again or if you dunno the person you can tell them they can look at it too. When people realize you just dont care anymore they'll have nothing to tease you about. Kids only tease other kids because they get a reaction out of them.
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Hey bud, that happens to the best of us....and they were laughing not at you but in fear that it may happen to them. I know its tough but go laugh it off. Make a joke out of it, do ask why they were looking, and you may say something about at least mine works. Look bud, this had NOTHING to do with anything sexual, you're not gay, it wasn't about being naked with a bunch of guys. It was more about being nervous and uncomfortable and about the exam the doctor did. Your penis has a mind of its own and there isn't anything you (we) can do about that. It sucks that the guys have put this all over school, that's just wrong. Don't give them the pleasure of embarassing you more...you could respond with something like, "Yeah but they were looking" and I bet that'll shut it up. Hang in there and keep us posted on who the climbing goes.
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That really sux. They should have never set that physical up like that. Very unprofessional, and it makes we wonder if that doctor was some sort of pervert or sicko. I mean you would have to be a retard to not know that would be a horribly embarrassing experience for everyone lined up like that. Why do that, when a simple room with a door to examine each one would solve that problem without really slowing anything down? 16 kids isn't that many - its not like he had 600 to do at a time - then that assembly line method may have made more sense.
Anyway, the only thing you can do about it now with kids making fun of you is to laugh back at them. Say things like, "at least I can get it up fine, better than you can!" Or, "as you saw, I don't need Viagara, but maybe you do and that's why you were so envious of my boner"
Those are a bit confrontational, but it'll shut 'em up.
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Why do that, when a simple room with a door to examine each one would solve that problem without really slowing anything down? 16 kids isn't that many - its not like he had 600 to do at a time - then that assembly line method may have made more sense.
I don't really know why they did it this way. I have never even heard of doing it this way. I don't know what the benefits of doing it this way are, but I know the cons. I find it hard enough to be in just my underwear around other guys, let alone having to pull my underwear off. I think it would have been better if the 8 guys not in the line were in another room or something. Not sitting there in front of us.
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Anyway, the only thing you can do about it now with kids making fun of you is to laugh back at them.
I have tried to just ignore everyone, but that doesn't seem to be working. I will try joke back today, but it is hard to do that when I really want to just punch them in the face.
I did talk to one of my "friends" who was one of the guys in the same line as me, and he said that he didn't see anything cause he was too busy looking anywhere but at the naked guys in the room. So it must have been the guys in sitting that told the rest of the school.
Why out of 16 guys am I the only one who got a woody? I mean I know I am pretty sure I am bi, but I wasn't thinking about ANYTHING sexual. I thought I had better control. I may be bi, but no one knows, and I am not gay, so I don't want those rumors going around!
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Well believe it or not, not all erections are sexual. You can get erections from simply being nervous, which I suspect may have been what happened to you. I don't think our morniing erections are sexual in nature either...they just seem to happen naturally. I like the idea of making jokes yourself. Kids might not expect that, and it might disarm them. The one thing I don't want you to do, is to let that horrible experience stay with you too long. It might start affecting you in ways that could last for years and years. Believe me, its not something you'd want. Luckily school is almost out and by next year you'll probably have mostly different kids in your classes.Hang in there! Believe me its not the end of the world, although it might seem like it right now.That medical staff should be fired. I thought that kind of crap stopped in the 70's. If they were too busy to do it the correct way, they shouldn't have signed on.
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I never heard physicals being done like that. I've been in a line before but we all kept our boxers on til be reached the front of the line. Then we had to drop them. The fact is whether you're bi or not doesn't have anythng to do with it. I've been in enough locker rooms to know just about everyone pops up at some time or another. You just picked a bad time. I'm sure the rest of them were as surprised as you .
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Well believe it or not, not all erections are sexual. You can get erections from simply being nervous, which I suspect may have been what happened to you.
I agree. Some guys get erections when nervous, which was probably your case. Although you're bi, it doesn't sound from your post that you were sexually turned on by anything. It doesn't sound like you were staring at every one else's penis and getting turned on by the site of them, or thinking what you would like to do with them, etc. So I don't think that matters that you're bi.
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Just don't show them that it pisses you off. Most people would take it further if you did. I would act like it never happened.
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let me get this right u had to get nacked in a line of 8 people insted of all the people at onence
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can you not understand the idea of a DEAD THREAD first of all he most likely doesnt come here anymore or atleast doesnt care or remember about this thread,2nd you dont appear to have some ass shattering news to attribute so stop bringing them up its pushes newer more important threads down and out
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ur the worst f***ing bitch with the slutest mom i have ever seen u discust me u dick
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HEY chill out for gods sake.......After the email i just received from you, you won't get a warning, you will just be banned if you carry on being abusive to members of this forum.
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and you lack a total ability to type any whole words or spell insults or even use relevant insults in proper context. text typing son of a bitch.
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Ouch. But yeah, most people are right. If you make it a big deal then other people will, but if oyu just deal and move on then everybody else will too.
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The guy you are replying to put up his last post in October. He's probably long gone.This is a quite dead thread...in bringing it back to the top, nothing very clever was added.(Was the dead parrot in the Monty Python sketch any deader than this thread?)
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Steve in flat mode, jsut a couple posts above his own, there is ample warning its old and to leave it be, it does no good to say shit Iv determined that telling them its old and dead only brings it back to a level slightly above the parrot nailed to its perch to keep it there.