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Hiya, erm my question is i masturbate esp if i dont get any from my bf :laughing:, well i masturbate alot, and being in the smae room as my little sister (10) she as caught me and asked what im doing and ive told her and asked her not to tell and shes wanted to watch me and ive let her, but other day she asked if i wud d it to her show her, and wanted some1s advice should i or not ?

**Do you know i just can't allow myself to say everything i wanna say to you................you're 13 years old and already done just about everything with a guy you can, which i find appalling, and now you have let your 10 year old sister watch you masterbating................don't touch her or she might turn out like you! **

leave your little sister alone and lay off sex for several years, you're asking for trouble

I agree, i cant believe you let her see anything. dont do anything, do not show her dont touch her. and what on earth are you doing having sex at 13?!

Why masturbation is normal, and sleepin in the same room is hard not to be seen, i do it when she sleeps but she as caught me, asked question and just told her it makes me feel good when i aint got my bf around, she asked to watch me so i let her, and i first masturbated when i was 9 by accident, i was in bath and washin down there and liked it, so it aint hurtin no1 and for all i know or u my sister cud be doing it so...

your not thinking of her! You might cause serious problems mentally for her. i dont care if you do it, but dont you influence her. She mightj ust want to be cool like her big sister, and you might be screwing her up.

One of the scariest social change in recent years is the hypersexualization of children. Kids start dressing sexy a lot sooner, and start having sex a lot sooner too. I find it a bit distressing myself, as do a lot of others. That kids start masturbating early is harmless enough, as long as they are not actively encouraged to start and are told what is and what isn't acceptable socially about it (ex: little girl who rubs her crotch in the living room while family friends are visiting).Let's face it. Masturbation alone is one thing. It's private, and it doesn't affect anyone but yourself. But the moment someone else is involved, the whole dynamics change. Sex, like it or not, involves (or should involve) lots of feelings that many people aren't mature enough to handle. Issues of control, of wanting to please at all cost, of self-image, etc. You can't honestly tell me that a 10 year-old girl who has done everything from fellatio to sodomy to please her 11 year-old 'boyfriend' really knows what she's doing. At best, she'll get the idea that she can get by in life by using sex all the time. At worst, she'll believe she's just an object of desire for males to use and discard once they're done. It takes a lot of time to put sex into perspective while growing up, and it usually requires two partners of sufficient maturity. You should definitely let your sister progress at her own pace. Don't lie to her, but don't coach or encourage her either. Please show some maturity, as your comment about showing your sister's pictures to guys on the net who jerked off on it definitely demonstrate some serious lack of it.

after reading a few of your posts, i think that you are lying. I think you are just turned on by incsest, walking in on your family members ect. I think that you need help.

Wel i dont think there anything wrong with sex at 13 i did it at 14 and i think its nothing bad. About your sister i would tell her about it maby not touch her unless you have 2 but def show her how its done i wish i had some 1 older 2 show me wen i was young.

it's wrong in this day of age to have sex at 13 or 14, so if you got a girl pregnant how are you going to support it?

If the two people engaged at sex at age 13 are RESPONSIBLE about it, EMOTIONALLY READY for it, and understand BIRTH CONTROL and STD PREVENTION, sex at that age is perfectly oksex at that age is awsum with those conditions

According to your post here, James, you did it at 12.

No 13 year old is emotionally ready for sex, nor responsible enough to deal with the consequences.

Fully agree. Heck, most aren't even ready at 18, or later. The fact is, those who think they are ready are almost never seriously considering the possibility of pregnancy and the consequences thereof. Show me a 13 years old guy who got a 13 years old girl pregnant and felt perfectly fine in taking his responsability as a father at that age, and I'll be very impressed indeed.

Amanda: 'No 13 year old is emotionally ready 'trust me- i am (i am 14)

Ok so how do you plan on raising a child by yourself?

Does your newspaper bicycle route pay the medical bills, the baby food, the clothes, the crib, the diapers, the carseat, the forumla, etc.? Who pays for the babysitter while you're at school? How are you going to get the baby to the doctor's...afterall at 14 you don't have your license.

Trust him.

I'll trust him if he can answer all those questions without using the word, mom, dad, my gf's mom, dad, or any other family member. There's no way in hell a 14 year old can raise a child by themselves.

Just trust him. He's ready... smirk

well someone should of told the us durning middle school when i was there, i'm not making this up. the singing group at are middle school called KFT(Kids from Taft) i wasn't on the bus, but this is what i heard a group of them got borad and started to have sex or something i'm not sure and they where all doing but from what people where saying they had sex. This is the Micheal Jackson part the teacher the TEACHER kept the tape on what happened on the bus. And then a year later we find out he was a Sex Offender. like i said i didn't make this up,even though it sounds like it.