How to finger a girl

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brah dis wat i do 1st u play wit da lips 2 get her a lil excited and then go in slowly and find da lil thing they squirt out of and play wit dat and whisper her name 2 her while doin it

lol yea we didnt have sex, and theres no chance i woudl without protection. wen i say get inside i mean with my fingers, but i hope i didnt hurt her or anythign since she said it was hurting a while after i left

HEY! Yeah I am totally new to this board...but I read your post and it is definetly normal for it to sting for a few minutes after your first time... just keep doing it and that problem will go away! She definetly liked it if she jumped up and started kissing you.On the subject of how to get fingered... All guys are different and most girls realize that. Big NO's- Thrusting your finger in and out without any other movement- Overstimulation of the clit- UNDER stimulation of the clit (thats the worst!) I'm so not bragging...but sharing! hahaha... My boyfriend is AMAZING at what he does...and I think its so great because he alternates between stimulating my clitoris and going inside.... It keeps things exciting and never boring.. Hes not timid at all and totally takes charge.. that is the sexiest thing.. just being confident!!Just remember to have fun with it and you can totally tell if a girl is into it by the way her body is moving, and if she moans or not..

How to finger a girl if it is both of yours first time:

DONT GO TO DEEP
MAKE SURE THEY ARE WET FIRST

there has to be a build up to everything. build up to making out, just giving each other pecks then more and more. once you are in the swing of things gently slide your hand up her skirt or down her trousers, do not go in her pants yet. rub up and down, around in circles, whatever you feel like, try to keep making out during this if possible. wait untill you can feel that they are wet through their pants before you slide your hand down. be gentle. enter with your longest finger at the top and there will be two little flaps of skin. go down this skin untill you find the hood, which is over the clitorus. slide in another finger and play with the hood to begin with, then go into the clit. vary what you do but try to keep a rythm. stroke it in circles, and make sure you kind of go in and out aswell. when you feel like you have got the hang of this then take both your fingers and slide them in and out, not concentrating particually on the clit. after she has had her orgasm keep a finger just resting in there, it gives the impression that you want to stay with her. once youve done this a few times (2-5) you can start heading to the g spot.

There's alot of good information on this post, I just have a couple of questions:1) Tryin to get your girl wet just involes getting her exited with Kissing, rubbing, sliding you hand around her panty line?2) "Come Hilter" motion? Are we going in and moving our fingers in the motion trying to touch our thumbs with the fingers inside. Or are we going in doing one motion coming out, then going back in and doing one motion again. 3)yea dumb question but "coming out" sounds like pulling all the way out. or just going back to finger tips?4) I know girls get bored with one motion. What can you do to stimulate the clit?Thanks.

im going to the movies with my gf this weekend and she is one of those girls that wants everything to be special....so i dont know if i should try to finger her b/c it might ruin our relationship, any advice?

When she's thinking of things being special, she's probably more likely to be thinking of a dozen red roses than being fingered; but I don't know that we can advise, as we don't know the girl.

1. Getting the girl wet - Trust me man if she likes you enough to be making out with you, there's a decent chance she's all ready starting to get wet. All girls are different, but I've found with all my previous g/f's once we are making out and I put my hand on the back of her head, she's nice and wet. Just do lots of foreplay, don't try to finger her right as you start making out.2) The 'Come Hither' motion - Good question, it's when your finger is at least half way inside her, then bend your finger upwards and watch how she reacts. Do this for a while without your finger going in and out, but after a minute or two it helps to just finger her like usual, in and out. It's good to not let her get bored like many have said.3) It depends on the girl, some like it to barely come out, some like it when you pull it all the way out and put it back in 4) How to stimulate the clit - When my current g/f and I got comfortable enough to masturbate in front of eachother, I studied how she played with her clit. I saw exactly what motion she used, and how/when she switched up that motion to something else. Like, at first she would do circular rubs, then get faster, then switch to going straight left to right rubbing... it's hard to explain but if you can see how your g/f pleasures herself, it makes things so much easier.

In reply to: Thrusting your finger in and out without any other movement I'll do that, but only when she was about to cum and I want to back off g-spot stimulation.