Okay, some people on here know about my situation with my ex-boyfriend. Well we've decided to remain friends even after our break up (well we didn't talk to one another for a few months and now we're just happy that we're "just" friends now). We've been broken up for nearly a year and a half and I'm okay with not being with him, I'mready to move on. Well to get to the point, I was at his work and I wanted to stop by and say hello to him and instead of runnig into him I ran into one of his friends. Well we started talking and she kept telling me what a sweet guy he is and that him and I were such a cute couple when we were dating and so on and so on. I was like "yeah, yeah, I know, I know, thanks, I didn't end the relationship, but thanks anyways for thinking so." She kept going on and on about how we should get back together and blah blah blah. Well I ended up telling her "I do miss him, but I'm just happy that we're friends now". And after talking to her a while I decided I needed to leave because she just wouldn't let up. Well I went home and I gave him a call, I needed to find out if we were still on for lunch for my birthday this saturday. Well he said "I know something you don't know" and I just laughed and asked what he was talking about. "I heard you had a crush one someone" and I was like "Oh yeah, and who would that be?" and he just sat there for a few minutes and then said "me... you should know, amanda has a big mouth." I was shocked! I couldn't believe she would tell him something like that! Well I ended up saying "oh yeah, you're so adorable" and then I just hurried up and got off the phone with him. Now because she's done that it's going to be so akward between us. She has probably ruined everything I've worked so hard for because she has to run her mouth and say I said something I didn't and say that I want him when I don't. What do I do? How can I tell him I don't want to get back with him, and that I'm just happy being friends? Grrr, I'm so frustraited about this.... I'm sorry if I sound silly being upset about this, but I know how he is...
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Why did she do that?!?
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What do I do? How can I tell him I don't want to get back with him, and that I'm just happy being friends?
**Sis, I think all you can do it just tell him like it is.......you value his friendship etc etc, but that you don't want anything else and your friend is a stupid cow LOL *hugs* **
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Thanks sis! *hugs* You always know how to make me smile ^_^ *hugs*
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Well just explain to him that what amanda (his friend you talked too I assume) made that up, that you didn't say that, which is the truth going by what you said.
Make him understand you're just fine being friends and you don't have a crush on him anymore. -
Okay, well since that little thing happened, I've lost two of my so called 'bestfriends'. Bully for me! Neither one of them will call me, or talk to me when I see them. What the hell did I do wrong? For once in my life I really though that these two people (or shall I say my fair-weather friends) would be diffrent than all the other so called friends I've had all my life. They take and take and take and take and when I want just a little something in return, they get pissed and I never hear from them for months until they want something. And you know what I do? I just give in thinking "oh well their my friends so I just have to be there for them". I can't help but wonder "what did I do wrong?" I don't understand it! Don't know if this is making any sense to you guys but I needed somewhere to vent and this the best place to do just that. Friends? What exactly are friends? Are friends the type of people that don’t give a flying flip about you until it’s too late to realize they’ve lost the best thing they’ve ever had? So tell me what exactly are friends? I say they’re worthless sacks of skin who use and abuse you when you need them most. That’s what friends are. Friends are just an illusion... well at least they are for me....