I have recently started masterbating, and I feel I am doing something wrong!I start rubbing my penis but I never seem to get an orgasm !How long does it usually take you guys? I seem to just kinda spaz out in it but I dont feel that really pleasurable part is that part it ? I am 13 btw And if you do think I'm doing something wrong, what do you think it is? maybe im not rubbing right?
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Help!
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hrab ur shaft and go up and down when u r hard
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im uncut by the way~
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In reply to:
hrab ur shaft and go up and down when u r hard
all right, thats what I was doing but I'll go download some porn and try again.
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Hello there, If it makes you feel better I was in same position as you, was 13 too, though when I was 13 there was no internet, so you've got nice advantage of all the knowledge people on here who will guide you.All I can put in is to describe on what exactly do you mean "rub", is it rubbing the head, or up and down the shaft? Or is it rubbing at all? I just found out by accident how to climax, it took a while too, as I didn't really know what turned me on, just a bit of experimenting with strokes, speed, where my left hand was, postion even, and in the end, wham!! I was jerking off every day and haven't looked back. Best of luck to ya fella, perhaps the site jackinworld might help you with some good guides.
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well, first I was rubbing the head but it got extremely sensitive and didn't even feel that good. But when I go up and down it feels pretty good but I don't think im doing it right...should I pull my skin down more?
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You don't have to retract your foreskin down, but if you like it that way, it only has to go down just below the head.
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when I only bring my foreskin down to my head, it covers back up my head when I go up and down on my shaft
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I found (and still do) that the head is very sensitive, bit too sensitive actually, but being uncut I can understand why. Unless I'm super horny and am close to climax and have precum virtually dribbleing out then I never touch the head, I let the foreskin do all the rubbing and touching, as Bob says, you don't have to pull the foreskin all the way back, I don't to start with, as you get more horny and lubricated up it gets easier, whatever you feel most comfortable really. You could try even rubbing the head with the foreskin, so you're still rubbing the head, but using the foreskin instead of your hand, oh, and make sure you've got enough lubrication, if not enough, or no pre-cum, then dribble abit onto the head... We're all different, this it what works for me, but for someone else it'll be the complete opposite, experimentation is the key here I think
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To be more precise on my last post, I use my foreskin to go over the head while stroking, so in effect the foreskin is acting as a sleeve, give attention to the head via the foreskin and use that lubrication!! It don't matter if the foreskin goes all the way back, or all the way forward on the up/down stroke, its what feels the best that matters
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Thanks a lot guys, I'll try these techniques out when I get some "alone" time
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Hey bud and sometimes our bodies develop at different rates. Some guys don't have their first ejaculation until 14 or so. Just keep working with it and someday soon you'll have that first experience...and it'll be really cool!
