How do you deal with the love of your life hating you??? See before this big situation that happened the guy I am in love with liked me and we were real cool!!! But then the stupid situation came up and now he hates. What am I supposed to do???
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How do you deal???
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what was the situation?
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It is a really long story and I really don't want to talk about it!!! I just want to know what 2 do!!! T~E~A~R~Y~E~Y~E~D!!!
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I don't think we can really tell you what to do if we don't know the story
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Well I had let him borrow something of mine and I needed it back that same day cause I needed to use it!!! When I called him up and told him I needed it back he refused sooo we got into a small argument and then he started sayin that he hated me. None of it was really my fault though cause he is the one that refused to give it back!!! What do I do now??? T~E~A~R~Y~E~Y~E~D!!!
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It seems really immature to hate someone just for that reason .... I'm pretty sure you'll be able to talk about it with him (if he's not an asshole)
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**your boyfriend sounds REALLY immature hon, there is no need to say he hates you over what happened, i think maybe you would be better of without him, he sounds like an immature drama-queen, and you will get SO sick of him if he acts like that a lot. **
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This may sound very lame to you, but this is what my mother always told me when I was younger and when I went through a terrible break-up with my ex-fiancé. She told me "Honey, the only man that will ever be worth your tears will never make you cry." It made a big impact on me, maybe it'll help you out a bit. From what you said I don't think this boyfriend of yours is really what you need. If he gets upset over such a little thing whos to say what he'll do if you guys get into an argument over a bigger issue? No one deserves a person that'll treat them like that, I say you should move on and try to find someone else who will treat you with the love and respect every girls deserves to have. Good luck my friend ^_^PS> Dealing with the pain of knowing the person you love hates you isn't an easy thing to do (believe me, I know), and the only thing you can do is try to think of other things, do stuff with your friends, do anything that'll keep your mind off that person and one day you'll wake up and not even think about him as the day goes by. It'll take a while, but you can do it. Hope this helped a little.