I am 20 years old and have a very long foreskin which can be retracted for washing but only just. I am generally happy with what I have re intercourse and masturbation. I have a long overhang-a C10 on the scale-and my glans remains completely covered during sex (in fact, I really enjoy feeling the spurting of my own ejaculation during sex and I put out a lot of semen). So what is my problem? It is a weird one. Like Rodney Dangerfield, "I can't get no satisfaction" meaning "relief" and a normal "down period" after sexual activity. What I mean is that the surfaces under the foreskin are so sensitive and wet that even peeing and and ordinary sliding movement of the skin, say, when I sit down or my crotch brushes up against something stimulate me erotically. As a result, I am extremely conscious of my penis and find the stimulation distracting. My doctor says everything is normal. Fortunately, my girlfriend is very understanding about my problem and is always ready to help me get off when I need to. I've spoken to a few uncut friends about the problem and they said they don't have a problem like this. They say they feel a warm tickle when they pee, for example, but it doesn't really arouse them. And after sex or masturbation, they feel satisfied and relieved of tension. Does anyone know what causes this and if anything can be done about it, like applying a desensitizing cream, for instance? Would constant use of a cream like that cause any permanent damage to my penis? Any helpful comments will be appreciated but I am not interested in circumcision.
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Too easily stimulated--overconscious of my penis
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I'm uncut and have the same problem. i just jack off as much as posible to keep the stimulation down to a minimum
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So, you can retract to wash, but with an erection you can't? Even with such a large forskin as you describe? Maybe you should work on having the glans exposed. This way the sensitivity will be reduced.
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Seems like you're probably just more sensitive than most guys. Working on retracting the foreskin through stretching exercises would be a good start before trying creams or what-not. And onec you can uncover the glan while fully erect, masturbate often like that (I recommend lube for that) to try and get your glan desensitized a bit. When I first started jerking off with the foreskin retracted, any movement of my hand on the head used to cause pain (or rather, so powerful it really hurts) since it was so sensitive. But now it's more manageable. As for the extra sensitivity, maybe you're simply more horny than most males. On days where I feel horny from getting up to going to sleep, almost any stimulation to my penis, directly or indirectly, makes me hard as hell and causes me to masturbate 3 or 4 times a day to relieve that god damn tension.
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Reply to the Monitor's post:
Thanks for your comment. Just to clear things up: the bands in my foreskin opening are stretched to the limit when I retract while soft. I have to sort of "compress" my glans with my fingers to get it out. I wash as fast as possible and put the foreskin back because it is very uncomfortable while the opening is stretched. Sometimes, I skip a day for washing and just "rinse" when I pee. I have never seen any smegma under there anyway. There is no way my foreskin will retract when I am erect as the end of the overhang is narrow and a bit longer than most and the glans really swells up compared with its size when my penis is soft. Also, I've noticed that this pressure kind of causes the last bit of overhang to get narrower. Hard to explain but it causes a stretching which narrows the normal diameter of the foreskin tip opening. -
I understand. I would highly recommend that you work on stretching out that opening. It's quite doable. There are lots of post here on that subject.
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Reply to ShyGuy666:Thanks for the good advice about stretching but I think I'm in a Catch 22 situation on that score. I am afraid that if I do that the skin will eventually become so loose that it will slide back (at least on the in-thrust) during intercourse and expose the glans in the vagina. That's what most guys want so it may seem odd that I don't but I am afraid it would be too painful for me. A previous girlfriend said she had had sex with a guy who had a penis somewhat like mine but that the foreskin could be pulled back manually either before or during intercourse by pulling down on the shaft skin and holding the skin there. However, he never wanted to do it saying his glans was too sensitive. But one day she persuaded him to try it with a bare glans right from the beginning with her pulling down the shaft skin and holding it down while he thrust. She said he got it in easily but immediately started what she decribes as "convulsive movements" and moaning "Oh God! Oh God!" at the top of his voice. She said he thrust so hard against her pubis she had a bruise there and he held her buttocks so hard there were red marks there aftewards. He managed to last maybe 10 to 15 seconds (she didn't time it) and then he came very hard as the saying goes and by this time he was shouting out of control. The he started kissing her so hard on the mouth and sucking her tongue so strongly it hurt. It kind of scared her. After he calmed down he apologized for all the hullaballoo and complained his glans was sore and said he didn't want to try it again because of that and because the intercourse didn't last long enough for both of them to really enjoy it. Maybe that wouldn't happen to me but you see my point. I can't even try it as an experiment right now because I can't pull the skin back when I am erect. I think what you do is probably the best way to deal with the problem: relieve the tension or stimulation whenever possible by masturbating or making love. I guess my worry is in my head, that I'm oversexed or my penis is abnormal something crazy like that. But it would be nice to be able pee now and again without any erotic reaction. Maybe I should work on a way to stop the urine swirling around in there.
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Yeah, the first time the glans is exposed like that, it will be extra sensitive. As time goes on, the sensitivity will go down through sex and/or masturbation. I think you're overanalysing this. Quite simply, the forskin is supposed to go back during intercouse. If you can't even urinate without the forskin ballooning, then you need to really consider actively stretching.