One of my very good mates is a gymnast just like me. He was going out with another girl a while ago and then suddenly I see more and more of him. I'm confused about his emotions right now, because before, when he was going out with the other girl, I only saw him like once a week at the most. Can some of you guys guess what he's going through? I am very good friends with both of them, and we as a group like to hang out, but I think he's dumped her and 'moving on'. Should I encourage him or not, considering I'm a Christian girl who wants to stay pure and just wants to have guys and friends, nothing more, or should I let him be in the hopes that he'll eventually leave me alone and lose a good friend?
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Very Confused
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If you're not interested in a relationship with him that goes beyond friendship, it's best to make that clear as early as possible. You're going to have to let him know some time, and the earlier it is, the easier it will be for him, and the less damaging to your friendship.
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I would tell him that you only want to be be friend and tell him your morals that you are a christain and u only want to be friends.
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Hard to say. He could like you and tell ask you out and you telling him that would crush him but he would get over it (i always do anyway) or you could tell him early and him be completly freaked out that you think he likes you. I mean either way could be good or bad but its your choice.